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Volume:
Vol. 123
Number:
Issue 4
Date/Date Range:
06/00/2021
Era:
2020s
21st Century
The Lyre of Alpha Chi Omega, Vol. 123, Issue 4, Summer 2021
THE
THE
EMPOWERMENT
ISSUE
yre
Consultant
and
Province Officer
Teams
Day of Giving
Recap
Shana
Orczyk Sissel
A REAL. STRONG. WOMAN. OF DISTINCTION
Alpha Chi Omega
SUMMER 2021
REAL. STRONG. WOMEN.
VOLUME 123. ISSUE 4.
The Countdown to 300,000
very Alpha Chi Omega knows the story. Our
E
sisterhood started with seven young women -
Anna, Olive, Bertha, Amy, Nellie, Bessie and
Estelle - determined to find a place to belong. Since
1885, we've grown into an organization of sisters
across the globe, of all backgrounds and experiences,
all living as real, strong women.
This year, Alpha Chi Omega will reach an incredible
milestone: 300,000 initiated members! We're eagerly
anticipating our fall initiations that will take us to
100,000
(and beyond) that total. That's 300,000 sisters who
have joined together in our Ritual; 300,000 sisters
who have made a difference in their communities;
300,000 sisters who have shown the world what it
means to live as real, strong women. As we wait to
welcome home our new sisters this fall, we look
back to see two other women who helped Alpha Chi
Omega reach membership milestones.
In 1981, Cindy Thatcher was initiated into the Zeta
Nu chapter at Texas A&M University, making her
CINDY THATCHER, OUR
Alpha Chi Omega's 100,000th member. That year,
100,000TH MEMBER
college students were singing along to Dolly Parton's
"9 to 5," watching the first videos on MTV and
following the flight of Space Shuttle Columbia. Just
24 years later, we reached 200,000 initiated members
when Jaimie Mazzola joined the Gamma Xi chapter
at Western Michigan University in 2005, a year that
saw both the tragedy of Hurricane Katrina and the
pop culture milestone of the founding of YouTube.
JAIMIE MAZZOLA,
Our sisterhood continues to grow - and quickly,
OUR 200,000TH
as we'll welcome our 300,000th member just 16
MEMBER, WITH
years later. This future sister is from a class that has
THEN-NATIONAL
finished high school during the COVID-19 pandemic
PRESIDENT DONNA
and enjoys time on apps like TikTok, Reddit and
CHERECK
Goodreads. We don't know yet who this sister is, but
we hope you're as excited as we are to welcome her
and all our fall new members home!
FIND MORE UNTOLD STORIES ON THE
ALPHA CHI OMEGA HISTORY WEBSITE. VISIT:
#AXOuntald
ALPHACHIOMEGA.HISTORYIT.CON
SUMMER 2021 VOLUME 123. ISSUE 4. THE EMPOWERMENT ISSUE
REAL. STRONG. WOMEN.
IN THIS ISSUE
2
LETTERS
4
CORNER OFFICE
5
PERSPECTIVES
6
AXO NEWS
Consultants, province officers and
convention
18
ARCHIVES
20 AWARDS
22
FOUNDATION
26
HOUSING
30 ON CAMPUS
Hear from our new VPs DEI!
33
COLLEGIATE CORNER
36 LIFE
38
CAREER OUTLOOK
The importance of mentorship
44 VOLUNTEER SPOTLIGHT
52
MAKING A DIFFERENCE
45
56
INDUSTRY INFO
Meet our 2021 Real. Strong. Women. of
59
ACCOMPLISHED ALUMNAE
Distinction - (clockwise from top left)
62 ALUMNA INITIATE
Sylvia Miller Foster, Zoila Y. Alvarez
SPOTLIGHT
Hernández, Martha Watson and
64 AXO CONNECTION AND
Shana Orczyk Sissel.
IN MEMORIAM
COVER PHOTO AND PHOTO OF SHANA ABOVE BY AUSTIN
RYDE; PHOTO OF SYLVIA ABOVE BY JOAN JARSEN (IOTA
ALPHA, ALUMNAE INITIATES)
THE LYRE
1
EDITOR'S DESK
Notes to Empower
Contributors
B
ack in my junior year of college, I was serving as
DAYLE LANE
vice president Ritual and fraternity appreciation,
TAU (BRENAU UNIVERSITY)
and I was deep in the weeds planning our Initiation
A former Alpha Chi Omega
Ceremony. My to-do list was pages long,
chapter consultant, Dayle
and it felt like each time I crossed out a
is the assistant director of
task, I added three more. I was starting to
student involvement at
doubt I could make this event happen.
Florida Southern College.
She shares about her lifelong journey with
I still remember with perfect clarity sitting
narcolepsy, the support she received from sisters
down at my desk one morning with a
and the empowerment she found to advocate
pen in hand, ready to tackle that to-do
for others on page 36.
list once again. That's when I noticed a
few new tasks. During the night, a sister added some to-do
items like "Breathe" and "Remember you're doing a great job
and your sisters love you" to my document. To this day, I still
STAFF CONTRIBUTORS
don't know who that sister was, but I do recall the way her
kind notes made me feel: seen, supported and empowered.
MADELINE JENKINS, ASSOCIATE DIRECTOR
OF ADVANCEMENT
LAURA KNOBEL, ASSISTANT DIRECTOR
We all need people who can remind us we are stronger
OF LIFETIME ENGAGEMENT
than we think and capable of more than we imagine. This
"Empowerment" issue of The Lyre has shown me over and
over again that those people are Alpha Chi Omegas. I hope
you enjoy reading about our empowered sisters, who, in turn,
IN THE SPRING ISSUE,
empower others. And I hope it inspires you to think about
WE ASKED YOU TO SHARE YOUR
how the Alpha Chi Omega sisterhood empowers you to seek
AXO FURNITURE:
the heights.
When it comes to my home, there's hardly
a room that doesn't have at least one lyre!
LAUREN FILIPPINI (ALPHA CHI, BUTLER UNIVERSITY), EDITOR
I am always on the lookout for interesting,
old pieces and typically donate one or two
pieces to our [Beta Zeta Beta] Founders' Day
STORIES WORTH BEING TOLD
luncheon
auction,
The Lyre spring 2021 issue was terrific cover to
which raises
cover. Members' stories were inspiring, informative and very
money for
worthy of being told. I will read them to my 98-year-old
The Women's
mother and share with other non-Alpha Chi friends. You
Home here in
and your staff would get my personal Pulitzer. The qualities
Houston.
Alpha Chi Omega values in its members were exhibited in all
the sisters featured in the articles. Please continue to pursue
~SHARI
and publish members' stories. There are many stories out
HARMON
there waiting to be discovered.
ASHKAR
(ALPHA BETA,
~SUZANNE PIERCE (ALPHA OMICRON,
PURDUE
THE OHIO STATE UNIVERSITY)
UNIVERSITY)
2
ALPHA CHI OMEGA
Alpha Chi Omega
National President
Lynne Herndon
PAIGE NELSON
ANIKA
BETA XI (UTAH
TSAPATSARIS
National Vice Presidents
STATE UNIVERSITY)
THETA PSI
Jari Askins
(COLUMBIA
Mikelle Holt Brady
Paige is from a small
Cassie Gerhardt
UNIVERSITY)
town in Idaho called
Jill Sabatino Lacy
Mari-jean Oswald Siehl
Nezperce and will
Not only is
be in her fourth year
Anika balancing
Chief Executive Officer
at Utah State University majoring in
schoolwork and her chapter
Katie Lampinen Gaffin
history, anthropology, and law and
presidency while living abroad in
Senior Director of Education and
constitutional studies. She serves as
Greece, she's also training with
Engagement
her chapter's VP RFA. Read about how
the Greek national fencing team.
Amy Colvin Mustafa
Paige discovered her potential through
She shares a peek into her life and
Director of Marketing and
Alpha Chi Omega on page 5.
lessons she's learned on page 33.
Communications
Amanda Spice
Editor
AMY COLVIN MUSTAFA, SENIOR DIRECTOR OF
Lauren Filippini
EDUCATION AND ENGAGEMENT
ELIZA PAYNE, HOUSING OPERATIONS COORDINATOR
The Lyre is published quartlerly.
MADISON SMITH, ASSISTANT DIRECTOR OF EDUCATION
AND LEADERSHIP INITIATIVES
POSTMASTER: Send address changes
to The Lyre
5939 Castle Creek Parkway N. Dr.
Indianapolis, IN 46250-4343
Hand-painted by our friend Robert
The old black-and-white photo [is]
Morris of Woodville, Ohio, this
of my great-grandmother, Kate
Submission Deadlines
Fall issue July 1
old window has been recycled,
Reed Glover, who was an AXO at
Winter issue - October 1
painted and is attached to the side
DePauw! It sits in a special cabinet
Spring issue - January 1
of our garage. We see our lovely lyre
in our home with my beloved copy
Summer issue April 1
every day from our family room.
of the Symphony. I am SO grateful
317-579-5050
for the sisterhood of AXO, and
~JUDITH Z. PHILLIPS (GAMMA
alphachiomega.org
it is a joy to have these tangible
editor@alphachiomega.org
LAMBDA, KENT STATE UNIVERSITY),
WHO SHARES A HOME WITH HER
reminders of my ties to the sorority
Our Mission
(BIOLOGICAL AND CHAPTER) SISTER
in my home.
Through the Real. Strong. Women.
JOYCE ROBINSON
Experience, Alpha Chi Omega
~SARAH MAXFIELD LEE (ALPHA CHI,
cultivates impactful communities
BUTLER UNIVERSITY)
where women are inspired to
connect, lead, grow and serve.
FRATERNITY
COMMUNICATIONS
ASSOCIATION
NPC
national panhellenic conference
THE LYRE
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CORNER OFFICE
The Business of
Alpha Chi Omega
BY KATIE LAMPINEN GAFFIN
Stone Partners also experienced layoffs and reductions,
(DELTA ZETA, CENTRAL MICHIGAN UNIVERSITY),
with 287 positions reduced and 80% of our workforce
CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER
lost in the spring of 2020. I will admit to many sleepless
nights and difficult deliberations as a team while we tried
remember in my first year as your chief executive
to decide between terrible alternatives in order to sustain
I
officer, a leader in another women's organization
Alpha Chi Omega. Yes, there were also a lot of tears.
shared an anecdote with me that has remained with
me since. She said, "There are times when it's a business,
And I know I'm not alone in the tears and frustrations
and there are times when it's a sisterhood." I didn't think
from this past year, as each of us as members, sisters,
much of it in the short-term, yet as I reflect on all that we
parents, partners, daughters and friends also had to
have experienced in the last 15 months of the COVID-19
make similar difficult decisions while facing challenging
pandemic, this sentiment has
circumstances in our own personal lives.
never been more true.
Sisters, just as you have had to remember to count your
In my role, I have seen
blessings, SO have I. In reflecting back on the last year and
innovation and problem-
on the business of Alpha Chi Omega, I would be remiss
solving within our staff and
in not also recognizing the good that Alpha Chi Omega
board teams that rivals any
has experienced as a sisterhood. I am forever in awe by
professional experiences I
how our collegiate sisters have pivoted, adapted and
have had. Our ability to be
shifted to accommodate the experience - how they have
anticipatory, build scenarios
made sisterhood work for them, in spite of it all. They
and manage change has been strengthened in the last
have mastered virtual recruitment and sustained their
year for sure. However, even this high level of work and
membership rosters by attracting, recruiting and retaining
love for our sisterhood aren't always enough, and our
sisters and the ties that bind us. They have adapted their
management team was forced to make some very difficult
programming and service opportunities in creative ways
decisions regarding the business of Alpha Chi Omega. I
to continue the good work of our mission.
recently heard some feedback and disappointment about
these decisions. I appreciated the opportunity to hear that
Our alumnae sisters and volunteers are no different. Sisters
feedback and share some of the context as our staff and
have stepped up to create virtual sisterhood opportunities
boards supported our overarching strategic priority: to
and have increased connections during a time when
sustain the Alpha Chi Omega Enterprise.
getting together has meant a video chat or a phone call.
Our volunteers have leaned into providing a supportive
The "business" of Alpha Chi Omega cannot run on
environment and have served Alpha Chi Omega with
sisterhood alone, and we responded the way most other
extra patience and care. The ties that bind us are real and
businesses responded to the pandemic's economic impact.
everlasting.
We reduced operational budgets, froze all expenditures,
instituted a salary freeze and reduced our professional staff
So this leads me back to where I started this Corner Office
by laying off 10 colleagues between April and July 2020.
column. Is this a time for the business or a time for the
Staff members deployed to facility worksites via Pearl
sisterhood? I would say the answer has been both.
4
ALPHA CHI OMEGA
PERSPECTIVES
Support and
Self-Confidence
BY PAIGE NELSON
women's fraternities. For the first time, women were
(BETA XI, UTAH STATE UNIVERSITY)
building my self-confidence up and genuinely expressing
how excited they were that I was their sister. Alpha Chi
R
eal. Strong. Women. That is what Alpha Chi is,
Omega gave me the confidence to be happy with who I
and that's what it will always be, an organization
am now. This organization, again and again, gives me tools
of independent women who build each other up
to continuously better myself emotionally, mentally and
and live our Ritual every day.
physically.
To an outsider, Alpha Chi may be seen through the
I joined in a very unique time, in the virtual world during
stereotypes of different women's fraternal organizations,
the pandemic. I struggled, as many others have, to find the
a lens that I looked through for many years. All of my life
"why" of staying in Alpha Chi. Was it even worth it to pay
I have been torn down by women, most of whom match
this money and only have half the experience? All of my
the stereotype a sorority woman has. It wasn't until I
questions were answered the minute initiation started. I
decided to take a chance and go through recruitment
fell in love with the Bond of Alpha Chi and later was even
that I learned Hollywood has everything wrong about
elected to an executive position, as a new active!
As vice president Ritual and fraternity appreciation for the
Beta Xi chapter, I dove headfirst into our history, doing
everything I could to help educate others on Alpha Chi
and our Ritual. This is when I realized that I had found
my second home. I was and still am surrounded by
women who build each other up, hold the same values
as me and love our organization just as much. By being
surrounded by strong, independent and confident women,
I have realized my potential, and I know with my chapter
backing me, I can achieve anything my heart desires.
Alpha Chi Omega has helped me realize my own potential
and gave me a healthier relationship with myself and
others. I can walk confidently around Utah State knowing
I have 50-plus independent women backing my every
step; this is something I haven't experienced before. It
motivates me to continue this support for new members
in future semesters, to show them all the wonderful things
our organization has to offer them. I will forever love
Alpha Chi with all my heart because together we will seek
the heights.
PHOTO BY ILAH HICKMAN (@ILAHHICKMANPHOTO)
THE LYRE
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AXO NEWS
WELCOMING OUR
2021-23 Province Officers
O
n June 1, our province officers
MASSACHUSETTS,
ALABAMA, LOUISIANA,
began their terms, which
VERMONT, RHODE
MISSISSIPPI, ARKANSAS
will continue through May
ISLAND, NEW
PAC: Beth Ann "Bambi" Reynolds
31, 2023. Our alumnae and collegiate
HAMPSHIRE, MAINE
(Epsilon Zeta, Auburn University)
chapters are supported by these national
PAC: Rashmi Khare (Theta
PCC: Samantha Cone (Beta Psi,
volunteers called province alumnae
Omicron, Massachusetts Institute
Louisiana Tech University)
chairs (PACs) and province collegiate
of Technology)
chairs (PCCs). These volunteers lead,
PCC: Ashlynn Werner (Iota
guide and support the alumnae and
Omega, Carthage College)
GEORGIA,
collegiate chapters in their assigned
SOUTH CAROLINA
geograhic area.
PAC: Deirdre Hill (Epsilon Zeta,
NEW YORK,
The Province Officer Nominating
Auburn University)
CONNECTICUT
Committee, a team of dedicated
PCC: Ann DiAntonio (Theta
alumnae volunteers, is charged with
PAC: Rebecca Jacobs (Kappa Nu,
Lambda, Clemson University)
reviewing applications and interviewing
Carnegie Mellon University)
potential candidates for the province
PCC: Julie Hall (Theta Psi,
officer slate. Alumnae and collegiate
Columbia University)
NORTH CAROLINA
chapter presidents recently voted to
PAC: Elizabeth Martin (Gamma
approve the slated candidate for their
Omicron, Marshall University)
province. We are pleased to announce
OHIO
PCC: Valerie Morrison (Theta
your 2021-23 province officers!
PAC: Emma Horn (Alpha,
Sigma, University of North
DePauw University)
Florida)
To connect with your PAC or PCC, log
PCC: Julie Chatzinoff (Theta Tau,
in to the Alpha Chi Omega website's
Rutgers University)
Resource Center and click "Find Your
NORTH FLORIDA
Volunteer." If you have questions about
the role of the PAC or PCC or need
PAC: Heidi Hulon (Epsilon Zeta,
PENNSYLVANIA, NEW
additional support, please reach out
Auburn University)
JERSEY, DELAWARE
to Kim McClure (Gamma Omicron,
PCC: Jamie Oliver (Gamma
Marshall University), volunteer director
PAC: Lauren Lewandowski
Theta, University of Maryland)
of PACs, at kimmcclure.axo@gmail.com,
Hughes (Theta Tau, Rutgers
or Corinne Wolffe (Zeta Eta, Bradley
University)
University), volunteer director of PCCs,
PCC: Kathleen Tucker (Gamma
NORTH TEXAS
at axodpcc@gmail.com.
Iota, University of Florida)
PAC: Heather Comstock
Claybrook (Phi, University of
Kansas)
MARYLAND,
VIRGINIA,
PCC: Leslie Moss (Gamma Rho,
WASHINGTON, D.C.
WEST VIRGINIA
Texas Tech University)
PAC: Stephanie Knott (Gamma
PAC: Jennifer Terry (Zeta
Omicron, Marshall University)
Lambda, University of Virginia)
PCC: Christine Licata-Hoang (Alpha
PCC: Manda Bickoff (Gamma
Omicron, The Ohio State University)
Omicron, Marshall University)
6
ALPHA CHI OMEGA
SOUTH FLORIDA
MINNESOTA, WISCONSIN,
CENTRAL CALIFORNIA
NORTH DAKOTA, SOUTH
PAC: Samantha Odom (Gamma
PAC: Joelle Johnson (Epsilon,
DAKOTA
Omicron, Marshall University)
University of Southern California)
PCC: Carolina Anthony (Beta Eta,
PAC: Nicole Haase Hensch (Zeta Psi,
PCC: Vacant; email axodpcc@gmail.
Florida State University)
Loyola University New Orleans)
com if interested
PCC: Mallory Sylvester (Alpha
Omega, Birmingham-Southern
SOUTH TEXAS
College)
SOUTH CALIFORNIA,
SOUTH NEVADA
PAC: Suzanne Cobb (Epsilon,
University of Southern California)
PAC: Holly Langbein (Theta Pi,
PCC: Megan Hershfeld (Epsilon Psi,
MISSOURI,
University of California, Davis)
IOWA
University of California, Irvine)
PCC: Megan Blackwell (Alpha
PAC: Carol Frank (Delta Chi,
Kappa, University of Oregon)
William Woods University)
ILLINOIS
PCC: Taylor Dailing (Alpha Nu,
PAC: Sasha Williams (Epsilon,
University of Missouri)
NORTH CALIFORNIA,
NORTH NEVADA
University of Southern California)
PCC: Leah Stein-Fredbeck (Zeta Eta,
PAC: Erica Brown (Epsilon
Bradley University)
ALASKA, HAWAII, IDAHO,
Theta, California State University,
WASHINGTON, OREGON,
Sacramento)
MONTANA
PCC: Jolie Napier-Vea (lota Tau,
INDIANA
PAC: Michele Mattoon (Rho,
California State University San
PAC: Niki McCann (Zeta Sigma,
University of Washington)
Marcos)
Missouri State University)
PCC: Colette Livermore (Delta
PCC: Elizabeth Kinder (Zeta Eta,
Omicron, Portland State
Bradley University)
University)
WHAT DOES A PAC DO?
SUPPORTS THE SUCCESS
OF ALUMNAE CHAPTERS
KENTUCKY,
ARIZONA, COLORADO,
AND OFFICERS THROUGH
NEW MEXICO, WYOMING,
COMMUNICATION, GUIDANCE
TENNESSEE
AND TRAINING
UTAH
PAC: Deb Dockery (Theta Kappa,
HELPS ALUMNAE CHAPTER
University of Memphis)
PAC: Stephanie Hansen (Pi,
LEADERS EXPAND AND
PCC: Sarah Back (Gamma Pi,
University of California,
STRENGTHEN THEIR ALUMNAE
Berkeley)
CHAPTER EXPERIENCES
University of Tampa)
PCC: Lizett Ross (Beta Nu,
CULTIVATES NEW ALUMNAE
CHAPTERS AND VOLUNTEERS
University of Utah)
FOSTERS LIFETIME ENGAGEMENT
MICHIGAN
PAC: Amanda Whiffing (Zeta
NEBRASKA,
WHAT DOES A PCC DO?
Omicron, Vanderbilt University)
MANAGES THE OVERALL WELL-
OKLAHOMA, KANSAS
PCC: Stacia Giese (Delta Rho,
BEING AND SUCCESS OF
University of Arkansas)
PAC: Tanya Chiariello (Psi, The
COLLEGIATE CHAPTERS
University of Oklahoma)
RECRUITS, TRAINS AND
PCC: Ashley Malone (Gamma Zeta,
DEVELOPS CHAPTER ADVISORS
Kansas State University)
TO SUPPORT CHAPTERS
PROVIDES TARGETED SUPPORT
TO RESOLVE CHAPTER AND
PROVINCE ISSUES
COORDINATES RESOURCES TO
ENSURE ALPHA CHI OMEGA'S
STRENGTH ON A REGIONAL LEVEL
AXO NEWS
Our Lyre
A BRIEF HISTORY OF THE LYRE BADGE
1885 - Members were identified not by a badge
Badge
but by ribbons.
1897 - As more members purchased lyre badges
of unique designs, convention delegates voted
that three jewels were required in all badges.
O
n March 1, 2021, Alpha Chi Omega
joined with other sororities in celebrating
1906 - J.F. Newman became the official jeweler.
International Badge Day. Started in 1997 by
1910 - Convention delegates restricted the choice
the National Panhellenic Conference, this celebration
of jewels to pearls and/or diamonds.
honors sisterhood and asks women to wear their
sorority badges wherever life takes them that day.
1912-15 - J.F. Newman, Wright-Kay & Co. and
Our badges remind us of the love we have for our
RJF Roehen all had official dies for the badge.
organizations and serve as conversation starters to share
1922 - L.G. Balfour became the official jeweler.
with others the power of the sorority experience.
1929 - All badges were required to have 22 pearls
and/or diamonds.
Today, Alpha Chi Omegas can choose from 22 lyre
badge options, with additional options available for
1960s - Before now, badges were inscribed
certain volunteer roles and even more that have been
with each member's name, chapter and year of
uniquely designed throughout history. Some members
initiation on the back. Through the 1960s and
choose to add a guard with the Greek letters of their
1970s, a number was instead engraved on the
chapter that attaches to the badge with a chain. You
base.
may also have seen dangles - representing chapter
1980s - Badges were engraved with a member's
officer roles, volunteer roles, scholarship and other
initials, making them difficult to trace today.
experiences - and additional pins, like our membership
1986 - Burr Patterson and Auld became the
milestone pins, worn alongside the badge.
official jeweler.
Badges can also be set into a ring or necklace,
1995 - Badges could be made with just three
making them stunning jewelry pieces to easily
diamonds and/or pearls.
wear your Alpha Chi pride. No matter the style or
2004 - Herff Jones became the official jeweler.
accompaniments, the lyre badge is a beautiful reminder
2017 - The current badge die, a three-pearl badge
of the Bond we all share as sisters of Alpha Chi Omega.
that is a replica of a 1917 badge, became the
standard choice for our newest members.
Interested in seeing more badges over the years? Visit
alphachiomega.historyit.com for photos of badges in our
archives collection.
PHOTOS
1. DAPHNE RAMIREZ (TAU, BRENAU UNIVERSITY) DISPLAYED HER BADGE AND OUR COAT OF ARMS ON A RED CARNATION.
2. EVEN ON ITS OWN, THE LYRE BADGE IS BEAUTIFUL, LIKE THIS ONE FROM THE GAMMA XI (WESTERN MICHIGAN
UNIVERSITY) CHAPTER.
3. ALYSSA SPELMAN (ZETA OMEGA, WESTERN CAROLINA UNIVERSITY) SHOWED OFF HER BADGE ON CAMPUS.
4. BECCA JACOBS (KAPPA NU, CARNEGIE MELLON UNIVERSITY) WORE HER BADGE ALONGSIDE THE NEW MEMBER
RIBBONS, NEW MEMBER STICK PIN, A DANGLE, A 10-YEAR MILESTONE PIN AND A LIFE LOYAL PIN.
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ALPHA CHI OMEGA
2
1
4
6
3
10
5
Good
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LEIGH JOHNSON (ALPHA OMICRON, THE OHIO STATE UNIVERSITY) PROUDLY WORE HER BADGE TO WORK.
5. 6. TRAEGER (ALPHA GAMMA, THE UNIVERSITY OF NEW MEXICO) DISPLAYED HER BADGE, JOINED BY DANGLES
REPRESENTING MEILING HER LEADERSHIP ROLES IN THE CHAPTER, AS WELL AS HER NEW MEMBER PIN AND THE CHAPTER PRESIDENT
SAVANNAH MATHERLY (ZETA OMEGA, WESTERN CAROLINA UNIVERSITY) CHOSE A RING SETTING FOR HER BADGE.
BADGE AND DANGLE.
7. 8. THE CHAPTER PRESIDENT BADGE SHOWN IN THE TOP LEFT IS A REPLICA OF THE BADGE WORN BY FOUNDER BERTHA
CUNNINGHAM, WHICH IS THE ONLY FOUNDER'S BADGE KNOWN TO STILL BE IN EXISTENCE.
9. DENISTON DANIELLE RUSSELL (ALPHA CHI, BUTLER UNIVERSITY) WORE HER BADGE WHILE VACCINATING PATIENTS AS A PHARMACIST.
THE LYRE
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is
AXQ NEWS
Speak Up About
Sexual Violence
SEXUAL ASSAULT
AWARENESS MONTH:
APRIL 2021
T
his April as part of Alpha Chi Omega's national
philanthropy of domestic violence awareness,
THE KAPPA LAMBDA (UNIVERSITY OF SAN
our members recognized Sexual Assault
DIEGO) CHAPTER HONORED DENIM DAY.
Awareness Month (SAAM) through many different
avenues to promote the health and safety of others
during the COVID-19 pandemic. In 2020, many of
our chapters transitioned their events to the virtual
environment for the first time, and in 2021, they've
strengthened their support for survivors in new and
important ways.
Some chapters were able to host in-person, socially
distanced events to raise awareness on their campuses,
such as the Alpha Chi (Butler University) chapter's
Take Back the Night event and the Lambda Xi (Augusta
University) chapter's Run a Mile in Their Shoes event.
Others shared SAAM information via social media and
at virtual gatherings, like the How to Support a Friend
THE ALPHA CHI (BUTLER UNIVERSITY) CHAPTER
Workshop co-hosted by the Delta Mu (University of
HOSTED A TAKE BACK THE NIGHT EVENT.
Massachusetts) chapter.
Across the nation, members showed solidarity with
survivors by wearing denim on Denim Day, April
28. Collegiate and alumnae chapters facilitated the
"Supporting Survivors" Program with Purpose to have
a conversation among their sisters regarding common
myths surrounding sexual assault, including who the
issue affects. This year's awareness campaign focused
on sharing that sexual violence affects individuals of all
identities and that sexual assault is never their fault.
On the national level, members and Alpha Chi Omega
national partner RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest
THE UPSILON (MILLIKIN UNIVERSITY)
National Network) raised awareness on RAINN Day,
CHAPTER RECOGNIZED RAINN DAY.
10 ALPHA CHI OMEGA
April 8, by starting conversations about
sexual violence with their communities
and drawing the RAINN Day symbol
on their hands. Through a planning
webinar, chapter officers learned how to
best support awareness and education
Chanel Miller
efforts virtually in their communities.
WRITER AND ARTIST
Additionally, members and friends
UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA
SANTA BARBARA
gathered for a webinar to learn about
RAINN on Tuesday, April 13.
As Alpha Chi Omegas, we continue to
stand with and support survivors of
sexual assault all year long.
THE VIRTUAL KEYNOTE
WITH CHANEL MILLER
KEYNOTE WITH
CHANEL MILLER
On April 27, hundreds of members and friends of
"Know My Name is an act of
Alpha Chi Omega attended the closing virtual keynote
reclamation. On every page,
for SAAM, "Alpha Chi Omega Presents: A Conversation
Miller unflattens herself,
with Chanel Miller," introduced by National President
returning from Victim or
Lynne Herndon and moderated by Chief Executive
Emily Doe to Chanel, a beloved
Officer Katie Gaffin.
daughter and sister. .Know
My
Name marks the debut of a gifted
Chanel's memoir, Know
young writer. Miller's words are
My Name, was a New York
purpose. They are maps. And she
Times bestseller and a
is a treasure who has prevailed."
KNOW
winner of multiple awards.
MY NAME
She was named one of the
-JENNIFER WEINER,
Forbes 30 Under 30 and a
THE NEW YORK TIMES
a memor
Time Next 100 honoree,
CHANEL
and was a Glamour Woman
of the Year honoree
MILLER
under her pseudonym
C
Emily Doe.
A
During this special
I
WAS
event, Chanel spoke to
her experience writing her memoir and becoming a
well-known artist with her installation "I was, I am,
I will be" shown in the Asian Art Museum in San
Francisco. Chanel also shared how her art has not
only empowered her to share her story but allowed
others around the world to reclaim their stories
and power after sexual assault.
PHOTO CREDIT: ASIAN ART MUSEUM
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AXQ NEWS
Investing
and responsibilities of a board member, nonprofit
finances, governance in constructive partnerships, strategic
planning, understanding the context in which a nonprofit
in Alumnae
operates and fundraising. This experience is equipping
alumnae with tools to seek the heights in volunteer service
in Alpha Chi Omega or other nonprofits meaningful to
Leaders
them.
National President Lynne Herndon (Alpha Upsilon, The
SEEKING THE HEIGHTS
University of Alabama) shares, "I am proud of Alpha Chi
TO BOARD SERVICE
Omega's investment in this educational experience.
EDUCATIONAL EXPERIENCE
Cultivating future board leaders and investing in alumnae
development positions Alpha Chi Omega for a strong
BY AMY COLVIN MUSTAFA (BETA PHI, BOWLING
future. This is critical training, and truly best-in-class,
GREEN STATE UNIVERSITY), SENIOR DIRECTOR
benefiting participants both personally and professionally
OF EDUCATION AND ENGAGEMENT
as they extend their Real. Strong. Women. Experience."
I
investing in the alumnae experience and cultivating
The series is facilitated by Past National President Angela
future board members that represent the diversity
Costley Harris (Alpha Beta, Purdue University), who is an
of the Alpha Chi Omega membership continue
accomplished nonprofit board consultant and coach. It
to be priorities of the organization. In 2020, Alpha Chi
includes virtual meetings with education and discussion,
Omega launched the Seeking the Heights to Board
exploratory readings, as well as facilitated connections
Service Educational Experience for alumnae interested in
and relationship-building with participants. Lizett Ross
learning about serving on nonprofit governance boards -
(Beta Nu, University of Utah) shares, "I have always
whether for Alpha Chi Omega or in their communities.
admired our National Council and respect the hard
Opportunities like this enrich the lives of alumnae as they
decisions they have to make. However, as someone whose
make the lifetime commitment to accomplish amazing
path was not a straight one, I feared I had missed out on
things in their lives and in the world around them.
opportunities that would help me gain the knowledge
to achieve such roles within Alpha Chi Omega or other
"I am proud to be a member of an organization that
organizations. When I heard about the Seeking the
invests in experiences for our alumnae such as the Seeking
Heights to Board Service Educational Experience, I was
the Heights to Board Service Educational Experience,"
hesitant to apply. I cried when I received the email that I
one participant, Brooke Stites (Kappa Lambda, University
had been selected! This program is just one of the many
of San Diego), says. "Not only has it been insightful
ways Alpha Chi Omega continues to show that they
with regards to the expectations and operations of the
support their members at all levels and want to help them
Alpha Chi Omega Enterprise boards, but it has also
grow, learn, prepare for opportunities and be the best
provided very helpful learning opportunities and valuable
they can be. I have learned SO much about what it takes
information to consider when pursuing a leadership role
to be a board member and have a deeper appreciation for
within any nonprofit organization. This experience is just
the hard work our National Council puts in. It's also
one of many that has shown me how Alpha Chi Omega
been great to learn directly from Angela Costly Harris
is invested in my overall success and contributions even
(one of the women I most admire) and meet sisters from
outside of the organization."
across the country!"
Twenty-eight participants were selected for the pilot
Alpha Chi Omega intends to offer this experience again in
experience that kicked off in November. The nine
2021-22. Information will be made available regarding the
monthly sessions have included topics such as the roles
application process in the fall.
12 ALPHA CHI OMEGA
LET'S CONNECT WITH SISTERS
together
ALPHA CHI OMEGA'S 61 ST
NATIONAL CONVENTION
Save the date!
JULY 8-10,2022
| SEATTLE/BELLEVUE, WASHINGTON
Registration details coming soon.
AXO NEWS
Summer Book Club Picks
Have you joined the Alumnae Book Club yet? Created
We're excited to share our summer books, a mix of
specifically for our literature-loving alumnae, the
romance, fantasy and nonfiction. You can also see past
online book club is a community for sisters to connect
books in the Alumnae section of alphachiomega.org.
virtually. Read along with our monthly selections or
at your own pace. Discussions are always ongoing in
We can't wait to have you join more than 2,200 sisters
the Facebook group - search "AXO Alumnae Book
in the Alumnae Book Club this summer as we read
Club" to join!
and discuss together!
JULY
AUGUST
SEPTEMBER
THE STATIONERY SHOP
THE MIDNIGHT LIBRARY
BAD BLOOD: SECRETS AND LIES
BY MARJAN KAMALI
BY MATT HAIG
IN A SILICON VALLEY STARTUP
BY JOHN CARREYROU
As the weather heats up this
Ever wonder how your life
summer, we'll travel to Tehran,
would be if you made one
Written by the investigative
Iran, where the political turmoil
different choice, if you could
journalist who broke the story,
of the 1950s has also reached peak
undo one regret? This novel,
this nonfiction book details the
temperature. There, teenaged Roya
straddling the science fiction
rise and fall of Theranos. The
finds refuge in her neighborhood
and fantasy genres, lets us
technology corporation and its
stationery shop. Amid the books,
into a library at the edge of
founder, Elizabeth Holmes, were
she meets her first love, Bahman,
the universe, filled with books
hailed as "the next big thing" and
passionate about poetry and
that each contain the story of
backed by billions of dollars in
justice. But the day before their
another reality, another life you
startup investments. There was
wedding, a coup interrupts their
could have lived. Nora Seed is
just one problem: the technology
love story, and Bahman never
faced with the chance to trade
didn't work. We're excited to bring
shows up. More than 60 years later,
her life for another. As she
this true story to the book club;
fate leads Roya back to Bahman for
considers reversing some of her
follow along as the author retells
the chance to ask him why he left
life choices, she must decide
his investigation into one of the
and how he was able to forget her.
what makes a life worth living.
biggest corporate frauds.
[Told]
virtually
OO:
Review
-THE WALL STREET
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Book
powerful love
The Story of
Elizabeth Holmes
THE
Matt Haig
d Theranos
INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLING
STATIONERY
AUTHOR OF How to Stop Time
BAD
SHOP
00:00:00
New York Times BESTSELLER
The MIDNIGHT
BLOOD
MARJAN
LIBRARY
Secrets and Lies
in a Silicon
KAMALL
30
Valley Startup
OS
John Carreyrou
With
New Afterword
14 ALPHA CHI OMEGA
2021-22 Chapter Consultants
Alpha Chi Omega is thrilled to announce the consultant
Focusing on areas including leadership development,
team that will serve our collegiate chapters in the next
chapter operations and recruitment, these 18 consultants
academic year. These sisters will work with each of our
will be instrumental in continuing the Real. Strong.
145 chapters, as well as help with the establishment of
Women. Experience for our collegiate chapters across
several new chapters.
the country!
FIRST-YEAR CONSULTANTS:
BELLA BARNEY
ALYSSA FREEMAN
KELSEY KOVER
ZETA XI (UNIVERSITY OF NORTH
ALPHA PHI (THE UNIVERSITY OF
LAMBDA (SYRACUSE UNIVERSITY)
CAROLINA AT GREENSBORO)
TEXAS AT AUSTIN)
Kelsey holds a bachelor's degree in
Bella held three executive board
Alyssa has her degree in public
social work from Syracuse University
positions in college: VP philanthropy,
relations. In addition to serving as
and a master's degree in social work
VP recruitment and chapter president.
VP recruitment information, she
from Rutgers University. During
She earned degrees in kinesiology
chaired her chapter Encouragement
her collegiate experience, she served
and dance studies, and she's a certified
Team, supporting sisters through
her chapter as VP new member
Pilates teacher.
kind notes.
education.
ALYSSA KRUIZENGA
BECCA LAHR
GRACE MARTINS
DELTA ZETA (CENTRAL MICHIGAN
EPSILON KAPPA (CALIFORNIA STATE
THETA SIGMA (UNIVERSITY OF
UNIVERSITY)
UNIVERSITY, FULLERTON)
NORTH FLORIDA)
While earning her degree in
Becca has a degree in childhood and
Grace held leadership positions as
kinesiology and working as a nurses
adolescent development. In addition
VP risk management and chapter
assistant and NICU nurse technician,
to serving as VP new member
president, also serving as the
Alyssa also served her chapter as VP
education during college, she worked
morale chair for her campus Dance
recruitment and chapter president.
as a cast member at Disneyland.
Marathon. She earned her degree in
communication this year.
AXO NEWS
BAILEY JO MELO
ELLYSSA MORGAN
MADISON SCHATZ
ALPHA PHI (THE UNIVERSITY OF
RHO (UNIVERSITY OF WASHINGTON)
RHO (UNIVERSITY OF WASHINGTON)
TEXAS AT AUSTIN)
While earning her undergraduate
Madison earned her degree in public
Bailey Jo led her chapter as VP
degree in mathematics, Ellyssa
health and global health along a
recruitment and chapter president.
taught and tutored middle and
pre-medical track. In addition to
She earned her degree in sport
high school students. She served as
serving as chapter president, she
management and was named a Tip
VP risk management for her
was also vice president of standards
Scholar and a Houston Livestock
chapter.
and accountability of her College
Show and Rodeo Scholar.
Panhellenic.
ZAFYRE SEXTON
KELBY SULLIVAN
KATHERINE TUCKER
TAU (BRENAU UNIVERSITY)
DELTA PI (UNIVERSITY OF TENNESSE,
ALPHA OMEGA (BIRMINGHAM-
KNOXVILLE)
SOUTHERN COLLEGE)
Zafyre earned her fine arts degree
in acting. On top of working as a
As she worked toward her degree in
Katherine has her degree in
residence assistant, she served her
education (kinesiology), Kelby was
psychology. While serving her
chapter as VP new member education
a peer mentor for a class of first-year
chapter as VP public relations and
and VP Ritual and fraternity
students. She held the position of VP
marketing and chapter president,
appreciation.
chapter relations and standards.
she also played Division III soccer!
CONSULTANTS
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15
27
2
BY
CHAPTER
CHAPTERS
EXECUTIVE
PANHELLENIC
THE
CONSULTANTS
REPRESENTED
BOARD
ROLES
NUMBERS
POSITIONS
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ALPHA CHI OMEGA
SECOND-YEAR CONSULTANTS:
SIERRA CAMUTO
AUTUMN JORDAN
JORDAN MAYNARD
BETA ETA (FLORIDA STATE
TAU (BRENAU UNIVERSITY)
DELTA RHO (UNIVERSITY OF
UNIVERSITY)
ARKANSAS)
After her first year of working with
Sierra earned her degree in business
chapters over the screen, Autumn is
Jordan's first year as a consultant was
management and led her collegiate
back for another year to put to use
a combination of remote support
chapter as president. She's looking
her experience as VP recruitment
and on-the-ground work for our
forward to working with more
and chapter president. She has a
Mississippi State establishment.
chapters after her first year of remote
degree in health science.
She holds a degree in business
support.
administration and served as VP
recruitment.
ALYSON VAN WINKLE
AVERY WILSON
EMILY WIND
ZETA SIGMA (MISSOURI STATE
SIGMA (UNIVERSITY OF IOWA)
ALPHA NU (UNIVERSITY OF
UNIVERSITY)
MISSOURI)
Avery supported our Mississippi State
Alyson served as chapter president
establishment in person last year, in
Emily holds degrees in anthropology
during her undergrad as she earned
addition to working virtually with
and international studies and is a
her degree in public relations. She
chapters. While earning her degree in
former VP chapter relations and
looks forward to a second year on
marketing, she held the roles of VP
standards. After her first year doing
the team after supporting chapters
chapter relations and standards and
remote chapter support, she can't
remotely this past year.
chapter president, and she served as a
wait for year two as a consultant.
recruitment counselor.
INTERESTED IN LEARNING MORE ABOUT THE CONSULTANT ROLE OVER THE
YEARS? FLIP THE PAGE FOR OUR "THEN AND NOW" SERIES!
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ARCHIVES
THEN AND NOW
Chapter Consultants
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FROM THE DECEMBER 1955 LYRE, VOL. 59, NO. 2
Have you ever thought
about what Alpha Chi
Omega was doing 10,
20, 50 years ago? How
have things changed for
our members and our
Full-Time Fraternity Work!
organization? How have
they stayed the same?
Taken from previous
Lyre magazines, the
"Then and Now" series
Alpha Chi Seeks
offers a glimpse into what
life was like for Alpha Chi
Traveling Secretaries
Omegas throughout our
history.
Charlene Moore, Chi, first
to be appointed.
For more than 60 years,
Alpha Chi Omega is seeking two full-time
Alpha Chi Omega
traveling secretaries from among this year's
to give helpful ideas but can stay long enough
graduating seniors, or from among alumnae
to see them integrated in the chapter. She is
has employed young
who have been out of college no longer than
young enough to be an understanding friend
three years.
alumnae to visit,
to every girl in the chapter. She can see the
Providing travel and living expenses plus
guide and educate our
a small salary, being a traveling secretary,
national picture."
collegiate viewpoint as well the Fraternity
collegiate chapters.
while not a career in itself, would serve as an
Already on the job, Charlene has been
excellent "starter," especially for a girl whose
working particularly on scholarship programs
Over the years, they've
interests are in the field of guidance or per-
and pledge guidance. Usually she can expect to
been called "traveling
sonnel work; in fact it would be a good pre-
stay about a month or six weeks at one chap-
requisite to any career in which experience in
secretaries," "collegiate
shorter as the situation indicates.
ter although the period may be longer or
working with people is an asset. Those who
field consultants" and
can qualify will have a chance to travel, to get
acquainted with various colleges or universi-
Job Requirements!
"chapter consultants";
ties, the opportunity to work with college girls,
What are the requirements for a traveling
they've traveled by
plus the satisfaction of being of service to
secretary besides being a recent graduate?
their Fraternity.
plicant must have shown leadership on her
Again to quote Mrs. Jones: "A successful ap-
train, car and plane -
and this year, they've
Job Is New This Year
own campus, rank high scholastically, have
The new job was created at the April '55
a good record of chapter responsibility, have
"traveled" via Zoom.
Council meeting and the first traveling secre-
been well liked in her chapter, be recom-
Regardless of name or
tary was chosen soon afterwards. She is Char-
mended by the dean of women, chapter ad-
circumstance, these
lene Moore, a June '55 graduate of Oregon
viser, province president, and chapter presi-
State College. Charlene attended the pre-con-
vention Training School (with the province
Jones.
dent. Applications should be sent to Mrs.
women continue to
make an immeasurable
presidents and district alumnae chairmen),
convention itself, and has received special
Mortar Board, and Omicron Nu, home eco-
Charlene is a member of Phi Kappa Phi,
impact on generations
training since from Mrs. Kennard Jones, na-
nomics honorary. She was first vice president
tional collegiate vice president.
of Chi, vice president of the junior class at
of real, strong women.
Oregon State, and national secretary of the
What Is a Traveling Secretary
college section of the American Home Eco-
According to Mrs. Jones, "a traveling secre-
nomics Association. She received the Drucilla
tary is a counsellor and friend. She can stay
Shepard Award for being the senior woman
with a chapter for a much longer period than
with the highest scholastic average. Charlene
visiting officers and therefore is not only able
in the traveling secretary field.
is well-qualified to be Alpha Chi Omega's first
9
Zoom, have a weird obsession with creating
2021
spreadsheets and have been able to appreciate the
work-from-home lifestyle. I have had the amazing
opportunity to work and grow alongside the most
driven and supportive women. They have taught me the
values of friendship and leadership, all while connecting
through a screen. I know it's a cliché, but membership
in Alpha Chi Omega is more than four years, it is for
life, and I am beyond thankful to have served as a
While the consultant role is always changing, the 2020-21
chapter consultant.
team faced a new challenge: supporting chapters virtually
during a pandemic! Two sisters share their experiences as
consultants this past year.
AUTUMN JORDAN
(TAU, BRENAU UNIVERSITY)
HOLLY BROWN
(DELTA OMICRON, PORTLAND STATE UNIVERSITY)
I wake up around 7:30 a.m., grab breakfast and log
in. I prepare for my day by checking through emails,
My typical day starts with a walk with my two pups,
checking my schedule and creating my to-do lists.
coffee in hand. I then sit down and dive into helping
Throughout the morning, I complete tasks, have
chapters in whatever way possible. Some weeks it is
coaching calls and check in with chapters. I usually
preparing for recruitment or COB; others, it is leading
break for lunch with my family and walk the dogs.
fun workshops and bonding activities with chapter
Then I log back on for my afternoon meetings. After
leaders. Some of my favorite visits are the ones where I
my meetings, I do any necessary follow-up and prep
get to work with women from the complete opposite
for tomorrow, then repeat! My favorite virtual visits
side of the country. Yes, getting up at 4 a.m. is difficult;
have been for recruitment. I love being "DJ AJ" and
however, watching my sisters recruit new classes is
playing music for our chapters during the rounds and
the most rewarding way to start my day. I also have
in between parties. Bringing that positive energy and
had the opportunity to meet with some chapters
being a recruitment hype woman is an experience I will
on a weekly basis. I have created more than just
forever treasure.
working relationships with these women, but lifelong
friendships, and have been able to watch them blossom
With teamwork and passion, there is nothing we can't
into such strong leaders.
do! We have found ways to help our chapters through
uncertainty and the hard conversations the past year
I have learned SO much more about myself and this
has brought, and I am SO grateful I have had the
organization. I have become a master at navigating
opportunity to be a part of that. I have learned that it
is OK to be uncomfortable with change at first, but it
is important not to let uncertainty or fear
of change stop you. This year has been
nothing "normal" or traditional, and I am
SO proud of the person I have become. I
can't thank this organization enough for
Avery Wilson
Emily
pushing me to believe the best and grow
through the changes.
MOST OF THE 2020-21 CONSULTANT
Brown
TEAM, WITH HOLLY IN THE CENTER
AND AUTUMN IN THE TOP RIGHT
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AWARDS
AXQ Award Winners
BY MADISON SMITH (IOTA PSI, ELON UNIVERSITY), ASSISTANT DIRECTOR OF EDUCATION
AND LEADERSHIP INITIATIVES
Alpha Chi Omega is thrilled to recognize the first of our
collegiate chapters, we are especially excited to honor
2021 individual award winners! These sisters are making
one outstanding advisor here.
a difference on their campuses, and we can't wait to see
what their lifelong Real. Strong. Women. Experience
Stay tuned - more individual award winners will be
holds. And while we're thankful for all the fraternity/
announced in the fall Lyre, along with the recipients of
sorority advisors who partner with us to support our
our collegiate chapter awards!
AMY DUBOIS RIETH EMERGING LEADER AWARD
This award honors a newly initiated member who has embraced the ideals of Alpha Chi Omega
and who has shown great potential to serve her chapter, her campus and her community.
ABIGAIL INTERRANTE
KAPPA TAU (UNIVERSITY OF CONNECTICUT)
Abigail has gotten involved in the community and the chapter by
volunteering as a tutor, working in a research lab and joining the
executive board as vice president risk management. She has a passionate
drive to achieve whatever she sets her mind to, and there is no doubt she
will continue to make an impact through her dedication to her studies
and leadership roles.
ABBY VANDERWALL
BETA ETA (FLORIDA STATE UNIVERSITY)
Abby got involved right away as her class representative on the chapter
relations and standards board, which led her to joining the executive
board as vice president chapter relations and standards. She is a proven
leader who continues to expand her horizons by getting involved on
campus and committing to her academics.
20 ALPHA CHI OMEGA
ESTELLE LEONARD OUTSTANDING SENIOR AWARD
This award honors a senior who is actively involved in her chapter, on her campus and in her community;
who clearly lives the values of Alpha Chi Omega; and who is the personification of what it means to be a
real, strong woman.
ISOBEL RUSHTON
THETA UPSILON (UNIVERSITY OF SOUTH CAROLINA)
Isobel served as chapter president, was the first international student
to serve as the university's student body president, founded the largest
service organization on campus, and was recognized as the 2020 Greek
Woman of the Year, among other accolades. She lives her values as a
leader on campus and in Alpha Chi Omega by standing up for what is
right, fighting for social justice and acting as a support system for all. She
truly embodies what it means to be a real, strong woman.
OUTSTANDING FRATERNITY/SORORITY ADVISOR AWARD
This award is presented to a campus-based professional advising fraternity and sorority life at an
institution with an Alpha Chi Omega chapter. It bonors an individual who supports and mentors the
women of Alpha Chi Omega to seek the heights.
MEGHAN BULLARD
ASSISTANT DIRECTOR OF FRATERNITY & SORORITY
LIFE PROGRAMS, UNIVERSITY OF IOWA
Meghan goes above and beyond her role by consistently checking in with
the Sigma chapter and Alpha Chi Omega headquarters staff to ensure
communication remains open and a positive working relationship is
maintained. Meghan is a supporter and friend to Alpha Chi Omega.
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FOUNDATION
A Day to Empower Sisters
CELEBRATING THE
friendships and gain opportunities through the sorority
FOUNDATION'S FOURTH
experience that help us to be leaders, philanthropists
DAY OF GIVING
and changemakers. As Alpha Chi Omegas, we are real,
strong women who come together to create a powerful
network of sisters that can and will change the world.
BY MADELINE JENKINS (ALPHA BETA, PURDUE
UNIVERSITY), ASSOCIATE DIRECTOR OF
This year, the Alpha Chi Omega Foundation held its
ADVANCEMENT
fourth Day of Giving on April 7-8, 2021 to celebrate the
empowered women who make up Alpha Chi Omega -
empowered women empower women. It's a
E
the women who make our sorority experience unique
phrase we hear SO often today and one many
and the future generations of real, strong women who
of us would use to describe our Alpha Chi
will grow our sisterhood.
Omega experience. We are empowered women and we
empower women, but what exactly does this mean?
Dollars raised during Day of Giving support the
Real. Strong. Women. Fund, which helps to create a
The dictionary definition of the word "empower" is "to
community of real, strong women who have the tools
make (someone) strong and more confident, especially
to impact the world.
in controlling their life and claiming their rights." How
have you been made stronger and more confident by
This year's Day of Giving
your Alpha Chi Omega experience? Maybe it's the
was critical in raising
sisters who encouraged you to run for that executive
funds to support the Real.
board position or the forever friends who stood by your
Strong. Women. Experience.
side through life's hardest moments.
Over the past 12 months,
Alpha Chi Omega has
There are times in life when you're the sister who needs
85
continued to prioritize
help, and other times when you're the sister who can
evaluating and enhancing
lend that helping hand. As we become empowered, we
Foundation-supported
share that and, in turn, empower others. As Alpha Chi
MINUTES
programs to meet the needs
Omegas, we empower others through actions. We
of today's members. We
support survivors of domestic violence, we speak out
continued our partnership
about the importance of mental health and we build
with Ross Szabo, creator of Behind Happy Faces, to
up our sisters, inspiring them to seek the heights in
develop nine collegiate lessons focused on members'
whatever their path may be.
emotional well-being; reimagined Women & Wisdom:
Alpha Chi Omega's Network of Real, Strong Women
Empowered women are strong women; we encourage
to create deeper connection among sisters; and pivoted
each other, support each other and challenge each other
all member programming to a virtual environment,
to be the best versions of ourselves.
creating new content and learning opportunities.
When we joined Alpha Chi Omega, each one of us
As you can see, our work is never done, but
made a promise to ourselves and to our sisters to live
thanks to our donors, we can continue providing
empowered. No matter if we've been members for a
a transformational experience to our members -
few months or 50 years, we continue to grow in our
collegians and alumnae.
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HOW DID FOUNDATION PARTNERS
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We're always looking to grow our Foundation Partners
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WHO SHOULD JOIN FOUNDATION
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PARTNERS?
sisters use Foundation Partners as a way to increase
Anyone! The Foundation is grateful to have sisters and
their annual giving as they are able.
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HOUSING
Home Sweet Home
for Beta Sigma
BY ELIZA PAYNE (DELTA CHI, WILLIAM WOODS
takes a lot of teamwork to complete. In addition to the
UNIVERSITY), HOUSING OPERATIONS
architect, general contractor and interior designers,
COORDINATOR
the NHC also partnered with chapter leadership and
advisors throughout the project.
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he Beta Sigma chapter was founded in 1938
at the University of Georgia, and when the
The project was greatly supported by The Campaign for
chapter house at 1064 S. Lumpkin transferred
1064 S. Lumpkin, chaired by Julie Cain Burkhard, a Beta
to the National Housing Corporation (NHC) during the
Sigma alumna and Past National President. Through
2010-11 fiscal year, it was determined that in addition
the generosity of alumnae and friends, the campaign
to routine maintenance needs, there was an eventual
surpassed its goal of $1 million! Julie shared the
need for more beds, larger common areas and a chapter
following feelings after the completion of the campaign:
room to fit the growing membership. At the beginning
of the 2020-21 academic year, the NHC completed its
"Overwhelmed with the level of engagement and
15-month renovation of the Beta Sigma chapter facility,
commitment we've seen from Beta Sigma alumnae. Their
and members were able to move back into the house this
generosity and commitment to this project has been over the
past October. The renovation included an addition to the
top.
original facility and a complete overhaul to the interior.
When members returned, the facility was essentially
Proud of the professional way in which the NHC staff
brand new!
managed this project. Lines of communication were always
open, transparency was the norm, love of this chapter and
The groundwork for this type of large-scale renovation
this property always evident.
is laid up to several years prior to construction and
Thankful to the NHC board and National Council who gave
us the green light and made this long overdue renovation and
addition the priority needed. Their leadership and wisdom
led the way.
XOXO
Grateful that the next 50 years of 1064 S. Lumpkin Street are
secure with safety, technology, functionality, space, beauty
and the spirit of Alpha Chi Omega throughout."
With all the great work from these teams, Beta Sigma
chapter members can enjoy a beautiful space for many
years to come!
BUILT-IN BEDS ARE A UNIQUE FEATURE IN THE CHAPTER
FACILITY. THE NUMBER OF BEDS MAY VARY IN EACH
ROOM, BUT IT'S CLEAR THAT SISTERS ARE LOVING THEIR
NEW SPACES!
THE BETA
SIGMA FACILITY
GOT AN
ADDITION ON
THE FAR LEFT
AXO
SIDE, WHICH
PERFECTLY
MATCHES THE
ORIGINAL
HOUSE!
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BETA SIGMA
THE ENTRYWAY TILE IN THE BETA SIGMA FACILITY
THIS NEWLY RENOVATED ROOM IN THE CHAPTER HOUSE IS
FEATURES A BEAUTIFUL INLAY OF THE ALPHA CHI
DECORATED IN A UNIVERSITY OF GEORGIA THEME. IT'S A FUN
OMEGA LETTERS, LYRE AND CHAPTER NAME.
SPACE FOR SISTERS TO SHOWCASE THEIR UGA PRIDE!
THE EXPANDED DINING ROOM ALLOWS MEMBERS TO
GATHER, HOST EVENTS AND HAVE CHAPTER MEALS.
A 24-HOUR SISTERS KITCHEN AND SERVERY WERE
COMMON AREAS IN THE FACILITY PROVIDE ROOM FOR SISTERS TO
ALSO ADDED.
STUDY, HOST MEETINGS AND CONNECT WITH EACH OTHER.
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becomes the setting for their best college memories.
vendors on
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WHAT DOES EMPOWERMENT MEAN
big and small,
TO YOU?
from one-room
updates all the
Empowerment means feeling fully equipped to tackle
way to brand new
whatever task or challenge you are facing. By fully
facilities. One
equipped, I mean feeling supported by those around
NHC partner is
you, along with knowing that you possess the mental,
PDR Interiors,
emotional and sometimes physical strength to achieve
an all-women
your goal.
interior design
company led by
WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE PART OF
interior designer and owner Liz Toombs.
WORKING ON AN ALPHA CHI OMEGA
HOUSE?
WHAT INSPIRED YOU TO PURSUE A
CAREER IN INTERIOR DECORATING?
Can I have two favorite parts? 1. Seeing the women's
faces when they walk into their new space. I love seeing
A couple specific things stand out to me as my
the joy that results from the work and planning my
inspiration. I was very close with all of my grandparents
team has put in. 2. Collaborating with the housing team
growing up, specifically my dad's dad. He was a Realtor
at headquarters and the students involved in the project
when I was a kid, SO I got to experience a variety
decision-making. Connecting with the people involved
of homes through his work. Seeing the different
in that process is what makes the work worthwhile.
architectural styles and the way people decorated their
homes sparked my interest in this field. Then in college,
I was watching Trading Spaces in my sorority house's
TV room. On the show, Vern Yip updated a sorority
house, and I was amazed that someone could do that as
a profession. The seeds were planted in my brain at that
point.
CAN YOU EXPLAIN A BIT ABOUT PDR'S
MISSION?
Our mission is to create a space for clients that serves as
the backdrop to their lives. We exist to make sure that
backdrop reflects them and effectively meets their daily
PDR DESIGNED THIS COMMON SPACE AT THE GAMMA
needs SO they can enjoy the important things in life.
THETA (UNIVERSITY OF MARYLAND) CHAPTER FACILITY
For sorority clients, the house is a prominent part of
IN 2019.
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LEARN ABOUT THIS NEW COLLEGIATE EXECUTIVE
BOARD POSITION FROM OUR OFFICERS THEMSELVES!
Matter movement. I wanted to be able to help my
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his January, all collegiate chapter executive
boards saw the addition of our newest
amazing sisters utilize their information and be able
officer role: vice president diversity, equity
lead a more inclusive lifestyle after they graduate.
and inclusion (VP DEI). These sisters are working
to promote a positive, diverse and inclusive chapter
Ruth: I wanted to start the change I wanted to see.
environment through education, programming, policy
The year before headquarters announced that every
and best practice.
Alpha Chi chapter would soon have a VP DEI, I
started the Diversity and Inclusion Committee here at
We asked a few of our new VPs DEI to tell us about
Alpha Nu. When the opportunity came to shift this
their role SO far and how the work they are doing
committee to an executive position, I was thrilled at the
is impacting their chapter and campus community.
chance to serve Alpha Nu as a VP and give DEI even
Thanks to the following sisters for sharing:
greater reach in our chapter and on Mizzou's campus.
Olivia Arjona (Nu, University of Colorado Boulder)
Farah: I believe that there is always room for
Ruth Chi (Alpha Nu, University of Missouri)
improvement; you can never do enough. As a minority
Farah Issa (Theta Omega, Marquette University)
(I identify as an ethnically mixed person: Hispanic and
Hollis Marcinek (Gamma Rho, Texas Tech University)
Middle Eastern), topics of DEI are important to me
since I have experienced these issues firsthand. I wanted
Editor's Note: Identities included in this story were shared
to be able to educate my sisters and make my present
openly by our sisters.
and future minority sisters feel that this is a space they
are welcomed in.
WHY DID YOU CHOOSE TO RUN
FOR VICE PRESIDENT DIVERSITY,
Hollis: I chose to run for the VP diversity, equity and
inclusion position because those three words that
EQUITY AND INCLUSION?
make up the name itself mean a great deal to me. I've
Olivia: I decided to run for the DEI role because it was
always been very vocal in my sorority, particularly
an opportunity to have a platform as a queer Latina
about matters like LGBTQ (lesbian, gay, bisexual,
sorority member, who struggles with anxiety, depression
transgender, queer/questioning) representation, as I'm
and PTSD, in a predominantly white chapter and
a member of the community myself. There continues
university as a whole. A lot of our members wanted to
to be stereotypes and bias when it comes to sororities,
become better allies and weren't entirely sure what to
and I wanted to make us stand out from those opinions
do with all the new information they learned during
people may have. I want to create a welcoming
the summer of 2020 in the wake of the Black Lives
environment for all women.
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WHAT ARE SOME OF YOUR GOALS
Hollis: Some of my goals that I created for myself in this
FOR YOUR OFFICER ROLE?
role were to show more diversity on our social media,
set up a volunteer committee during recruitment
Olivia: Some of my goals this term are to get
that can help us identify and eliminate bias we might
information out in a digestible way and share both
encounter, create a resource handbook available to all
passive and active forms of activism with our sisters to
women in the sorority and collect opinions from our
facilitate growth and encourage them in the continuous
members about where we stand DEI-wise.
work of education and activism on their own. I want
to encourage these conversations to be more natural
WHAT INITIATIVES OR PROGRAMS
and help bring awareness to as many topics as I can
HAVE YOU STARTED OR PLANNED?
while making everyone comfortable with being
uncomfortable.
Olivia: I am in the process of making affinity groups
for our chapter. As a mega chapter, it's hard to get to
Ruth: My initial goal at the Alpha Nu chapter was
know sisters, especially given online school. I hope these
simply to foster a welcoming environment for sisters
groups can help sisters feel more connected within our
of various backgrounds and experiences. But when
chapter and be useful to their studies.
that goal is deconstructed and put into action as we
have found, it means SO much more and goes SO much
Ruth: We are working on weaving DEI programming
deeper. We want to implement tangible objectives
into the bylaws, ultimately placing the need for diversity
toward improving diversity and inclusion in our
at the core of our sisterhood. Another area we are
chapter, and I believe that starts with education.
addressing is recruitment and the implicit biases that
might affect our recruitment. Another goal for DEI
Farah: Some of my goals for my officer role include
in our chapter is action. We are celebrating identities
creating a safe space for these hard discussions and to
and cultures and advocating for minority groups with
get to know our fellow sisters on a deeper level. In order
funding and events.
to understand why diversity, equity and inclusion are
important, we need to first acknowledge our sisters'
Farah: One of the initiatives I have started in my
identities and appreciate those differences.
chapter is DEI hours. Similar to DVA hours, I have
OLIVIA ARJONA
RUTH CHI
FARAH ISSA
HOLLIS MARCINEK
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required that every member complete a certain number
chapter to take action alongside me - that is ultimately
of hours for the semester. To accomplish these hours,
what drives me to continue advocating for DEI in my
I have given members opportunities to participate
community!
in other events hosted by the university or by the
multicultural fraternities and sororities. I also plan to
Farah: DEI work is important to me because I want
host film nights to create discussion and expose our
to strive to make Alpha Chi Omega a sisterhood that
sisters to different perspectives.
reaches for higher understanding, education and
inclusivity for our BIPOC (Black, Indigenous and
Hollis: The one I'm most proud of is the DEI resource
People of Color) and LGBTQ+ current and future sisters.
handbook I made at the beginning of the year that
DEI is important SO we can actively do better for our
is accessible to every member in the chapter. It has
sisters and our community. An organization/group can
information over the eight social identities - race,
only succeed when its members include a wide range of
religion, ethnicity, sexuality, gender, ability, age,
diversity.
socioeconomic status - and includes things like
definitions, examples, do's and don'ts, holidays, crisis
Hollis: DEI work is important to me because everyone
hotline numbers and additional resource links.
deserves to be recognized and valued. There are SO
many women who go through recruitment looking for
WHY IS DEI WORK IMPORTANT FOR YOU,
a place to call home, a place where they feel they can be
YOUR CHAPTER, ALPHA CHI OMEGA
their genuine self. DEI encourages women to come as
they are without fear they'll have to hide themselves or
AND/OR THE SORORITY COMMUNITY AT
become something they're not. It's SO important that
LARGE?
the sorority community at large takes DEI seriously
Olivia: I want to be able to help the 300+ women in our
because we all have the amazing opportunity to
chapter be able to stand up for themselves, each other
understand the importance of multiple identities, the
and others in the sorority community as well as the
differences between women that should be honored
human community at large. I want the women at Nu
and the environment we could create that celebrates
chapter to truly grow into real, strong women and not
who each woman is.
just because they are in this sorority. It will be because
they have learned to become more empathetic, inclusive
women that are going to pave what the future is, not
just run in tracks paved before them.
"Alpha Chi is a space through
Ruth: We live in a world made up of a variety of
identities that go deep and wide. To me, this is one of
which I have found acceptance,
the most beautiful blessings humanity has been given.
Sadly, we also live in a society that tends to undervalue
visibility and a sense of
some experiences and normalize others. Being an
immigrant, Black and a woman, I have experienced
security. When I graduate, I
the effects of this marginalization. Alpha Chi is a space
want to leave my chapter and
through which I have found acceptance, visibility and
a sense of security. When I graduate, I want to leave
campus a more inclusive space
my chapter and campus a more inclusive space than
when I found it, and I recognize that I cannot do that
than when I found it."
alone, SO I want to educate and spur women in my
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Messages from a
Multinational Machine
SHARING MY EXPERIENCE
fencing world - but
AS A FULL-TIME STUDENT,
I take the "Party
in the USA" all
FENCER AND CHAPTER
the way to Europe.
PRESIDENT - ALL FROM
Since obtaining
ABROAD IN GREECE
dual citizenship my
freshman year of high
school, I've lived a
BY ANIKA TSAPATSARIS
double life, fencing
(THETA PSI, COLUMBIA UNIVERSITY)
both for Greece
and as captain of
launch Meeting. Open. Connecting. Join with
Columbia University's
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Computer Audio. Test Speaker and Microphone.
fencing team. In America, I'm "the Greek," and in
Participants. Invite. Copy Invitation. Admit All.
Greece, I'm "the American," but both are home; I'm
Start Video. Unmute. "Can you all see my screen?"
simultaneously a foreigner and a regular. But it's not all
beaches and baklava; since ninth grade, I have traveled
This past year, I've shared enough screens to fill 15
to Greece roughly five times per academic year to
NASA mission control centers, made my desk a dinner
maintain my ranking required for the Greek National
table and worn fuzzy Christmas socks to each class
Fencing Team.
lecture. Everyone I see is a bust in a virtual box, only
as loud as my computer volume capacity allows them
After purchasing a one-way ticket to Greece in
to be. My world exists within the battery-exhausted
September 2020, I participated in my first and last
bandwidth of my computer, and the strength of my
Greek Championship of the year before the country
conversations is contingent on the strength of my Wi-Fi.
re-entered a full lockdown in November. Upon
Not to mention that my jokes over Zoom aren't even
learning that gyms were closing, I immediately invested
remotely funny - pun absolutely intended.
in equipment, transforming the apartment's main
bedroom into a weight room with a view (maneuvering
In fact, it started as a joke: "If Columbia goes fully
the furniture was perhaps a better workout than any
virtual in the fall, I'm moving across the world." After
set I've completed on the professional setup). Seven
seven months of quarantine in New Jersey, I was ready
months of squatting household items and running
to exit not only my comfort zone, but also my time
basement stair intervals in New Jersey helped me
zone. As if I wasn't Greek enough being a Greek in
become creative with my fencing training in Greece;
Greek life, I'm now a Greek in Greek life writing to you
a tarp laid across the hypotenuse of my coach's living
from Greece. With a vacant family home in Athens that
room was my new fencing strip, and painted on the wall
could use some TLC and the prospect of being able to
was the friendly reminder, "No pain, no gain. Shut up
continue training and competing for fencing, the option
and train."
was as tempting as an empty flight with extra leg room.
But more valuable than the weight I could add onto
I guess you can call me the Hannah Montana of the
the squat rack was the weight that was taken off my
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shoulders upon moving to Greece.
Despite essentially operating on both
Greek and U.S. time, with training in
the morning and classes in the evening,
I was able to compartmentalize and
concentrate my days in ways that were
impossible in the chaos of campus life.
This positive change was enabled only
through the challenge preceding it. On
my final bike interval in the Athens gym
before lockdown, I noticed the following
statement painted on the wall: "If it
doesn't challenge you, it won't change
you." Aside from teaching me that the
ANIKA AT A MEET WITH THE COLUMBIA FENCING TEAM
pandemic would make Athens a city of
home gyms and motivational quotes
playlist, around three shots of espresso, typically two
painted on walls, this phrase has propelled me through
broken blades, and one exhausted brain and body. But
the past year. Consider the fundamental science of
both the beauty and the burden of the sport is that as
exercise: a muscle has to tear in order for it to grow.
calculated as it seems, it is highly spontaneous: while no
Unless you get comfortable being uncomfortable,
two actions are ever the same, neither are two reactions.
progress won't be handed to you like a Greek grandma
delivering baklava to her grandchild.
I placed dead last at my first World Cup. My dream is to
qualify for the Olympic Games. Now, re-read those two
People often refer to me as a "machine" (which I won't
statements. Though they wholly contradict each other,
blame on the caffeine, since I do do burpees for fun),
somewhere in between last place and Olympic hopeful
and I describe my lifestyle as HIIT-paced: intense bursts
lies the process. I'll admit it: even saying "hopeful"
of productivity followed by short periods of rest. But the
is generous. Essentially being last in the world was a
motivation behind my "just do it" mentality, in addition
moment I preferred neither to experience nor to look
to the reminder from the swoosh on my training
back on, and when I remind myself of my dream, I don't
sneakers and the Spartan blood flowing inside my veins,
believe it - I say it as a joke. But then, moving to Greece
is that time won't wait. My first fencing coach used to
started as a joke, and look at where I ended up.
say that being "on time is already late"; either I arrived
early, eager and equipped, or I paid the push-up price.
Fencing has equipped me with a weapon for life, and I
Since then, my desire not only to show up, but also to
don't only refer to the saber I hold in my hand. What's
show up on time and ready has been the impetus for
fascinating about training toward an "invisible" and
everything from my daily life to my biggest decisions.
"impossible" goal is that you learn to accept progress as
When I determined that booking a flight to Greece was
the prize. Before the pandemic, I perceived the process
the best option, I "just did it."
as the hurdle I'd need to hoist myself over to finally
reach higher ground (or at least second-to-last place).
Often characterized as physical chess, fencing has
Today, I deem every practice, every point scored, every
taught me the perfect balance between patience and
over-washed set of sports clothes, even every injury a
decisiveness. With only milliseconds to perceive, process
victory, because the lessons learned along the way last
and react to the opponent's action, it is a sport of
far longer than a certificate, plaque or even bronze,
precision and vision, targets and tactics, and, of course,
silver or gold. I aim for progress over perfection, because
caffeine-induced creativity. A full fencing tournament
although the process takes time and isn't linear, at least
entails over 200 competitors, a 12-hour pump-up
it encourages me to live in the moment.
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Of all the gifts this past year has provided, becoming
To our new members: Thank you for being the most
president of Alpha Chi Omega at Columbia was the
responsive, motivated and involved group of women. You
greatest one. Joining a sorority was the last thing I ever
have been the fuel our chapter needed to beal and grow. Your
thought I'd do, but the best thing I ever did; despite
passion for Alpha Chi was apparent even virtually, and that
being the oldest of three sisters at home in New Jersey,
makes me beyond confident in and excited for the energy
finding my sisters in Alpha Chi has made me feel
you'll bring once we're in person.
closer to home than ever. There's only one thing better
than finally finding the real, strong woman within
To our older members: Thank you for continuing to learn and
yourself, and that's finding it within more than 100
to teach. Having experienced this chapter in its normalcy, it's
other women. We are a chapter of Wonder Women,
tempting to say that "this wasn't how it was supposed to be,"
always seeking the best for our sisters, our society and
but if anyone knows how to pick up adversity and drop-kick it
the world. Alpha Chis wear many capes, but the badge
across the continent, it's you. Remember, everything happens for
we wear is one. Our motto, "Together let us seek the
a reason. Your faith in our organization is the impetus bebind this
heights," reminds us to constantly challenge ourselves
chapter, and we will become realer, stronger women as a result
and to motivate each other to do the same.
of this.
Something that has consistently impressed me about
To our seniors: Your impact has resonated deeply with our
my executive board is that each individual stepped
chapter. It has been the most incredible honor to have you
into her role knowing that it would be different in a
as role models, and your legacy will drive the future of
pandemic. It's one thing to be faced with a challenge
Alpha Chi. Please know that this is not goodbye, and no
while serving a leadership position, but it's a whole
matter how far we are in space and time, your fellow real,
other to face it voluntarily, from the start (in other
strong women will always answer.
words, these women would do burpees for fun). Despite
the difficulties of this past year, the participation,
So, thank you, Alpha Chi, for keeping me going, and for
patience and passion of our members have kept the
making me feel like Wonder Woman. To my real, strong
organization going. This leadership has taught me that
women everywhere:
you can never thank your support system enough,
and although an email can never wholly express the
Be decisive: if you don't ask, the answer is always no.
gratitude I have for our chapter, I sent this virtual thank
Be adaptive: grow through what you go through.
you note at the conclusion of the spring semester to
Be persevering: aim for progress, not perfection.
remind these women of their strength:
Be spontaneous: just do it.
Be diligent: keep your squats low and your standards
high.
Be present: live in the moment.
Be bold: get comfortable being uncomfortable.
Be resilient: if it doesn't challenge you, it won't change
you.
Be strong: continue to seek the heights and to serve
as Wonder Women not only for your chapters and
communities, but for the world.
Stop Sharing Screen. Stop Video. Mute. End Meeting
HELLAS
for All.
ANIKA AT THE FENCING WORLD CUP IN POLAND,
COMPETING FOR THE GREEK NATIONAL TEAM
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LIFE
Authentically Me
ADVOCATING FOR MYSELF
severity and think it's hyperbole. There is a different
AND OTHERS THROUGH
kind of weight that I feel when it comes to my invisible
illness. With needs that are not clearly visible, I have
MY JOURNEY WITH
had to fight against feeling like a burden when I ask for
NARCOLEPSY
accommodations or need something to be able to live.
BY DAYLE LANE
My undergraduate college experience was the ultimate
(TAU, BRENAU UNIVERSITY)
test of being outside of my comfort zone and a
whirlwind that was figuring out life with narcolepsy.
I
remember walking in the hallway as I headed to
On top of normal stress and anxieties of starting college,
class in the seventh grade when all of a sudden no
establishing a new daily routine was crucial for my
one was there and I was fading into darkness. How
health, and with all new people, I needed a new support
long I was in that state is a blur to me, but I remember
system. There were some major bumps in the road
being woken up and taken to the clinic. After several
of figuring out how to navigate a consistent schedule
years of this unknown illness and countless doctors'
with varying class times, changing majors and college
appointments, I'll never forget the nurse making the
activities. I am thankful for my experience at Brenau
suggestion, Maybe she fell asleep? The next doctor I
University's Women College program for SO many
went to was a sleep specialist, and by the time I was
things, and some of the main ones include amazing
heading into ninth grade, I was officially diagnosed with
faculty/staff and the best friends who turned into sisters.
narcolepsy.
Going through recruitment was the best decision
Narcolepsy is a chronic neurological disorder that
I've ever made. I have many Greek-affiliated family
affects the brain's ability to control sleep-wake cycles.
members, SO while I knew I wanted to join a sorority,
Symptoms often include periods of excessive daytime
I never thought these women of Alpha Chi Omega
sleepiness and brief involuntary sleep episodes. Many
would truly shape my life the way they have. There were
individuals with narcolepsy also experience uneven and
a couple of times where extremely emotional personal
interrupted sleep that can involve waking up frequently
events majorly affected my narcolepsy. My sisters were
during the night.
always there. From supportive talks, encouragement
or even reminding me it's past my bedtime, these best
One of the toughest parts
friends truly became my family.
of having narcolepsy is the
stigma and the unbelief.
During my sophomore year, my new member class was
I have received a range
hearing the expectations that come with living in the
of reactions when I share
house for the first time. We were talking about what
my disability. Sometimes
to do if there were a fire, and I vividly remember my
it is jokes; other times
class members saying, "I'll grab the charter!" "I'll grab
people make judgements
the coat of arms!" and Dana Cole saying, "And I'll grab
or assumptions; and
Dayle in case she is sleeping!" We all were laughing in
often people don't get the
the moment, but I remember my eyes filling with tears
of joy because my sisters were continuing on about how
DAYLE LANE
important I was and saying, "While we can get a new
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Alpha Chi Omega
Alpha Chi Omega
Alpha Chi Omega
accommodation plans that would keep them active but
also allow for excuses should they need them. I truly
felt that God was able to use me through multiple
occasions, in showing love and support to sisters who
had a lot on their plates already.
Through my journey, I have taken on the responsibility
to be open about the things I face in the hopes that I
create a safe space for others wherever I go. By being
my authentic self and sharing who I really am, I want
others to feel they can be real around me and share
their stories with confidence that they will be accepted.
Being a real, strong woman means that I don't have
to be perfect all the time. It means that if I am being
authentic to who I am and strong in courage, I can do
anything. Being a real, strong woman means I am not
in this alone. I have connections to other real, strong
DAYLE'S 2016-17
women who will be there to support me if I reach
CONSULTANT TEAM
out. Being a real, strong woman means that I have the
characteristics and skills to be able to support my sisters
coat of arms, we cannot get a new Dayle." Although
and all those who come in contact with me. Being a
thankfully there was never a fire, my sisters never saw
real, strong woman means I live out the Symphony
anything I needed for an accommodation as a burden
and do my best because I know that as a real, strong
on them, but as a way to show me how much love we
woman...I can do anything.
share in our Bond.
Because of the strict sleep schedule I had to maintain
MEMBERS OF DAYLE'S TAU CHAPTER CLASS
REUNITED AT BRENAU'S MAY DAY EVENT IN 2018
in order to stay healthy, I was put on a special
accommodation plan for the chapter events I could
not attend. As a member of the chapter relations and
standards board for three years, I was able to take that
knowledge into my role as an Alpha Chi Omega chapter
consultant. As a chapter consultant, I was stretched
outside of my comfort zone and truly learned through
that experience to ask for what I need. On my first
chapter visit, I was talking to a sister about some of
the things she struggled with, and we discovered that
we both had narcolepsy! It was an amazing feeling
knowing that not only am I not alone, I found someone
who shared a bond in more ways than one. After that
visit, I became more open about my disability, and on
two other occasions, sisters shared with me that they
also had narcolepsy and thought they may have to leave
Alpha Chi Omega because of it. It was such a blessing to
be able to help them speak to the executive board about
CAREER OUTLOOK
Preparing the Next
Generation of Professionals
LEARN MORE ABOUT
"I joined the Capstone program because I knew
THE CAPSTONE
this would be a great opportunity to learn how to
strengthen my leadership skills," Jenna Lee Ramsay
LEADERSHIP PROGRAM.
(Alpha Gamma, The University of New Mexico) says.
"I also saw this as a chance to meet sisters from across
e know no matter their path or passion,
the country. From this past year, sisterhood has become
W
our collegiate women are hoping for a life
more important than ever, and I want to put myself out
that is meaningful, fulfilling and makes
there as much as I can right now."
a difference. The Capstone Leadership Program is
Alpha Chi Omega's investment in the next generation of
And for Gigi Kerber (Alpha Omicron, The Ohio State
professionals and leaders. Held virtually from February
University), the program gave her skills to use right
to May 2021, this interactive leadership development
away when she starts her new job in July: "I thought
experience helped sisters enhance professional skills
the Capstone program would be a great opportunity
and competencies that will play a role not only in
to learn more about joining the workforce and the
their careers but also in other areas where they can be
leadership skills that I'll need in doing so."
leaders, such as civic engagement and volunteerism.
Forty-one juniors and seniors participated, and their
Providing guidance and support along the way was
reasons for doing SO were varied.
a team of dedicated alumnae sisters. "I volunteered
because there is a lot I wish I had known when I was
"This semester I arranged to study abroad; however,
a junior/senior in college about career topics," explains
my plans were altered due to the pandemic," explains
Courtney Igbo-Ogbonna (Delta Tau, Minnesota State
Sara Horvath (Iota, University of Illinois at Urbana-
University, Mankato), who led one of the small groups
Champaign). "I was determined to make the most
of participants. "It's important that I continue to share
out of my time and sought opportunities to grow
the knowledge that I have with our incoming young
professionally and personally."
professionals because navigating the professional world
can be overwhelming and confusing!"
Christin Spencer (Alpha Upsilon, The University of
Alabama), another small group leader, agrees: "I know
Arianna
when I was in college I had SO many questions, and I
was comforted by the fact that I had close confidantes
I could talk to about anything from work challenges to
Stephanie King
what shoes are best to commute in a large city."
Baker
Joining the program, as well, were a group of executive
mentors. Diane Boone (Beta Tau, Miami University),
president and founder of 2 Line Pass Team Dynamics,
Ahanti
Laura Allaben
LLC., was happy to share her advice gained from more
SISTERS PARTICIPATING IN A CAPSTONE SESSION
than 25 years in coaching and team communications.
38 ALPHA CHI OMEGA
She says, "I believe that effective communication is at
A FEW CAPSTONE PARTICIPANTS
the
core of leadership. The ability to interact effectively
AND VOLUNTEERS
with others may be the difference between success and
failure in your work and personal life."
Monica Cepero (Beta Eta, Florida State University)
is the newly appointed county administrator of
Broward County in Florida, effective March 2022; she
explains why she was excited to connect with collegiate
members: "It is our responsibility to give back and keep
supporting and providing opportunities to others. After
all, had others not taken a chance on me and provided
SARA
GIGI
JENNA LEE
me with opportunities, I wouldn't be where I am today."
HORVATH
KERBER
RAMSAY
And the experience gave back to our volunteers as well.
"It has been very rewarding to connect and learn from
the other executive mentors," Monica shares. "It further
demonstrates that learning is a lifelong journey, and I
have learned from my counterparts in other disciplines
and lines of work." This mirrors the advice she shared
with collegians: "Remember to never stop learning!"
"An 'aha' moment occurred during the first session
when I experienced that feeling of sisterhood that I
COURTNEY
CHRISTIN
had discovered SO many years ago as a collegian," Diane
IGBO-
SPENCER
recalls. "I felt the bond of sisterhood transcend chapters
OGBONNA
and years, even though I did not know any of these
sisters prior to the program. That was when I knew that
this was SO much more than just mentoring for me."
Each Capstone session followed a similar framework:
Warm-up activity and introduction of session
competencies
Panel discussion with executive mentors sharing
real-life examples of living out competencies in
DIANE
MONICA
their career and outside of work
BOONE
CEPERO
Small group breakouts for discussion and
interactive activities to grow leadership skills
Through their participation in the program, collegiate
Closing with "career stallers and stoppers"
members took away valuable lessons that they'll carry
to highlight the importance of developing
with them after they graduate, whether that's into a
competencies to avoid missteps in their jobs or
professional role or as a leader in their communities
leadership roles
and volunteer organizations.
Post-session work assigned to continue practicing
skills and reflecting on the life participants aspire to
Sara says that before the program, she hadn't
have
thought about what kind of work environment she
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CAREER OUTLOOK
HERE ARE JUST SOME
OF THE PROFESSIONAL
needed. "Now, I can
SKILLS PARTICIPANTS
connections she made within her small group. "I love
confidently say I seek
LEARNED ABOUT, BASED
that we are able to connect and learn from each other,
ON COMPETENCIES
companies that value
even through a program that is 100% remote. Every
ESTABLISHED BY THE
flexibility, mobility and
NATIONAL ASSOCIATION
meeting, I came away reinvigorated by my group."
open communication,"
OF COLLEGES
she shares, adding that
AND EMPLOYERS,
Jenna Lee's Capstone network has already helped her;
she gained confidence
THE COMPETENCY
when she didn't know where to start with a project,
FRAMEWORK BY KORN
to participate in
she reached out to an executive mentor for support.
FERRY LEADERSHIP
meetings at her
She adds, "Not only do I have someone I can rely on for
ARCHITECT AND
internship.
AXQ VOLUNTEER
advice who is more than willing to help, I now have a
COMPETENCIES:
new friend."
Gigi says, "One thing
that I enjoyed learning
BUILDING
"The best part of the program has been gaining
about was how to
RELATIONSHIPS AND
inspiration from the authentic discussion and
TRUST
develop genuine
collaboration among real, strong women," Sara says. "I
DEMONSTRATING
and meaningful
SELF-AWARENESS
went into the program focused on developing myself
connections in the
AND ADAPTABILITY
but along the way discovered the importance of lifting
workplace. As a
LEADING
others up."
'people person,' I love
INCLUSIVELY AND
chatting with my
MOTIVATING OTHERS
"I would highly recommend that my peers seek out
COLLABORATING
peers and coworkers.
opportunities like this one," Gigi suggests. "I think it's
BEING
I loved learning tips
ACCOUNTABLE AND
easy to forget about the massive network of Alpha Chi
on fostering trust,
ACTION-ORIENTED
Omega alumnae across the country. Taking part in the
authenticity and
MANAGING CHANGE
Capstone program has given me a glimpse into this
vulnerability."
BEING RESILIENT
valuable network as well as the support and knowledge
that our alumnae have to offer."
Jenna Lee highlights a piece of advice that stood out
to her: "One that resonated with me the most is how
Diane adds, "My advice and hope is that everyone takes
important it is to own your mistakes. I believe in the
the opportunity to mentor someone in the future.
power of growth, and being responsible for your actions
We all benefit from guidance, motivation, emotional
is the first step."
support and role modeling throughout our lives, and
there are times when we can be both - the mentor and
Additionally, the network created through the Capstone
the mentee - even at the same time."
program is something all participants found valuable.
Sisters interested in taking up Gigi's and Diane's
"The key to being a successful professional in any
recommendations are in luck! We hope to offer another round
industry is creating a network of people around you.
of the Capstone Leadership Program in the future; any details
You have to be connected, not just with those who work
will be sent via email and shared on social media. And sisters
in your industry, but people who come from a number
of all ages are always welcome to join Women & Wisdom:
of different backgrounds," Courtney says, adding, "The
Alpha Chi Omega's Network of Real, Strong Women. Career
whole point of Alpha Chi Omega is to create a network
advice, resume reviews and professional connections are
of women who are there to support you in any way."
just a click away at womenandwisdom.org. Anyone with
questions on either Capstone or Women & Wisdom can
"It's never too early to make connections. Don't wait
email Director of Lifetime Engagement Arianna Bradley at
to find your own mentors, and don't wait to give
abradley@alphachiomega.org.
back either," Christin shares, pointing to the great
40 ALPHA CHI OMEGA
Mentorship, Hard Work
and Growing from Mistakes
ONE SISTER SHARES
"You are your own genie," Jackie says. "You can create
the life you want, personally and professionally. It just
HER TIPS FOR SUCCESS
takes a lot of work." Jackie also acknowledges that as a
IN THE LAW INDUSTRY -
white woman, she has privilege and hasn't had to face
OR ANY CAREER!
some of the societal boundaries that people of color face
in her industry in making opportunities for themselves.
BY LAUREN FILIPPINI
It's one reason that mentorship is SO important to her.
(ALPHA CHI, BUTLER UNIVERSITY), EDITOR
Jackie says she has benefitted from mentors along the way
and has sought to return that support when she could.
T
he thing that I always count on is change,"
"There are SO many incremental steps to getting a seat at
says Jackie Rovine (Beta Eta, Florida State
the table and helping others do the same - putting in the
University) about her career. "I think that can
time to develop mentor relationships, seeking and giving
be really challenging, but I have learned to be very
feedback, making introductions, overcoming the inevitable
comfortable with that and how to step in despite the
challenges - but rising together is essential," she says.
uncertainty and fear."
Jackie put this work into formalized action in the New
An openness to change
York office at her previous law firm, Baker & Hostetler,
made it easier for her to
LLP, when she started the New Parent Outreach
pursue a job opening she
Program. In her fifth year at the firm when she had
saw on LinkedIn during
her first daughter, Jackie spent hours of her maternity
the first months of the
leave reminding colleagues when she would return and
pandemic, leaving the
coordinating the work she could resume on her first day
law firm she loved - just
back. But she ended her leave the day after an unexpected
as she was approaching
leadership change that resulted in all that planned work
consideration for
not being returned to her. As she was dealing with finding
promotion - for this dream
new work, the transition to being a working mom and
job. She's now working
colleagues' well-intentioned efforts not to overburden her
as an associate general
during the transition, she heard of a program at a different
counsel in regulatory
office of the firm to support new mothers.
at Facebook, handling a wide range of government
inquiries and regulatory investigations.
Jackie did her research, pulled together a team of
supporters and sent a proposal to start a program in her
Through her career, Jackie has learned valuable lessons
office. She outlined the need for a power mentor who
about mentorship, hard work and communicating what
could guide new parents in navigating the return to work,
you need - lessons she shared with Alpha Chi Omega
as well as peer mentors who could connect with them and
juniors and seniors as an executive mentor with the
help them through day-to-day challenges, like finding time
Capstone Leadership Program (learn more about the
to pump amid working billable hours. As Jackie shared at
program in the previous story).
a company panel about women in law, "We want to bring
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CAREER OUTLOOK
home the bacon - for the firm and for us. We want to be
her to Facebook. And even before her law career, Jackie
successful and make the firm more successful. Investing
saw that hard work paid off. When she was attending NYU
in us - new parents who still want to contribute in a
for summer courses as she considered transferring from
meaningful way - is in everyone's interest."
Florida State, she was invited to appear on an MTV game
show - and won! The prize was to work as a production
Jackie's plan was approved, and she was put in charge of
assistant at the Woodstock 99 festival.
the New Parent Outreach Program. She points out that
she intentionally used the word "parent" in the name
"When I showed up, no one knew I was the contest
instead of "mother" to empower the men in the office
winner, and the team was super focused on standing up
to take the parental leaves available to them and to help
a live, historic television production, which it turned
them understand their equally important role in childcare.
out to be. So I jumped in too, pretending I was just
another production assistant," she recalls. "They put me
"We need to create structures that reflect our equal
to work, and halfway through the experience, someone
ability to parent and contribute at home," Jackie
asked, 'Wasn't there supposed to be a contest winner
explains. "I was really focused on having it (the
here?' I spoke up then, and it ended up leading to me
program) be for men too. There's no other way for
transferring to NYU and interning at MTV once I came
women to be successful except for the men in their
to New York. I realized I can make life happen."
lives - their colleagues at work and their spouses
to be carrying that equal weight. There is no 'real'
Jackie also knows that hard work doesn't mean being
impediment to them doing that."
perfect. "I want to emphasize how important it is to
be open to learning from your mistakes," she says. "I
Jackie led the program for five years, and just before
am not where I am because I did everything right. I'm
she left for Facebook, her firm took the program
a person who has failed all my way up, and I still have
nationwide to all its offices. One of Jackie's favorite
a long way to go." She distinctly remembers receiving
moments with the program was a trip to the Big Apple
some harsh feedback that she wasn't expecting from
Circus; each lawyer with a child could invite a client
two female partners at the law firm, which a mentor
with a child to attend. Jackie remembers reflecting,
had to deliver during her yearly review. Instead of
"This is the future of business development. It's not
retreating and admonishing herself, she got to work to
guys bonding over cigars and brandy. It's moms bonding
improve upon the criticism.
over nighttime feedings and how we get our billable
hours at the same time."
"Over the next three years, I put my head down and
worked to address all the points they had raised,
In her own journey as a working mother, Jackie learned
and I turned it into something I'm SO thankful for,"
the importance of setting boundaries and communicating
Jackie says. And that mentor who delivered the harsh
what you need, such as your working hours and your
feedback? She watched Jackie grow and, seeing her
family hours. Her advice to new parents: "Explain how
success, was one of the leaders who signed off on the
you're going to get the job done - from 9-5 and then after
New Parent Outreach Program.
bedtime at 7:30 p.m., for example - and then do it. Hard,
good work will help relieve the concern that you're not
The advice Jackie shared with collegiate members in
available for a short amount of time that is essential to
the Capstone Leadership Program is advice that all
you being a good parent and good contributor."
sisters could benefit from: "Truly anything is possible,
professionally and personally. It requires you to connect
Hard work has always been part of her career, even straight
with people and reach out. It requires you to improve
out of law school; her offer for a clerkship came after
your skills. You have to spend the time to know what
applying to 600 positions! That job opened the door for
you're doing. If you do that, the doors will open in front
her to work in "big law" and set her on the path that led
of you."
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VOLUNTEER SPOTLIGHT
Katie Tarr
ALPHA NU (UNIVERSITY OF MISSOURI)
CURRENT VOLUNTEER ROLE: Finance advisor for Theta (University of Michigan) chapter
What do you do in your volunteer role? What have
What keeps your Monday
you learned from that experience?
through Friday busy
I mainly help with the budget and all finance crises
(outside of Alpha Chi
that arise (there are more than you'd think). I have
Omega)?
zero finance background, but I have learned SO much.
I am a PET/CT technologist
I can now solve many major financial problems, and I
at a county hospital in
discovered that I actually like working with numbers.
Chicago. I perform medical
imaging with radioactive
How did you become involved as an Alpha Chi
materials for cancer
Omega volunteer?
patients in underserved
I relocated to Ann Arbor, Michigan in 2015, and I
communities in the Chicagoland area. I see patients at
knew absolutely zero people in the area. One of my
every step of their cancer journey from initial diagnosis
friends from college told me to reach out to the chapter
to treatment to remission. It is my passion to provide
at University of Michigan and see if there were any
the best care to people in their darkest and lightest
volunteer positions available to help fill my time and
times.
meet people. Little did I know that I would end up in
the biggest volunteer role as chapter advisor.
What is your favorite Alpha Chi Omega memory as
an alumna?
Why is volunteering with Alpha Chi Omega
I will never forget attending my first convention in 2016
important to you?
in Florida. I went as a chapter advisor with two of my
AXO has always been there in my life when I have felt
collegians. It made me realize how deep my connection
the most alone or felt like quitting. The organization
to AXO as an alumna had grown since I was in college
has brought the most amazing women into my life and
and how many women I knew in the organization that
given me a sense of purpose. I feel like it is important to
I had met over the years, many of whom I met after
show the younger women in AXO that being a member
college.
really is for life, not just four years.
Why should alumnae become volunteers for
Who is an Alpha Chi Omega role model that you
Alpha Chi Omega?
look up to?
Volunteering is such a rewarding experience. There is
Kris Edwards (Beta Epsilon, Michigan State University)
nothing better than seeing your collegians succeed. It
is my AXO role model. She was my PCC during my time
also expands your circle. I have met SO many amazing
as chapter advisor [from 2015 to 2019]. I considered
AXO women across the country and made great
her my "Michigan mom." She took a chance on me
friendships with women I would have never met
as a recent grad who had very little AXO leadership
without volunteering.
experience. Kris was always a phone call away for any
issue AXO or life related. She is SO knowledgeable about
Visit the Alumnae page on alphachiomega.org to learn more
the organization and knows everyone.
about volunteering and the opportunities available.
44 ALPHA CHI OMEGA
Real Strong. Women.
OF IDISTINCTION
2021
WINNERS
Awarded annually, the Real. Strong. Women. of Distinction awards honor
Alpha Chi Omegas who are working toward their dreams. These sisters are inspired
by their own Alpha Chi Omega experiences to become the best versions of
themselves. They are doing great things across the globe and down the street
as difference makers, risk takers and dream chasers. These women are breaking
barriers and innovating in their careers and communities.
Read about our four winners on the following pages.
How will your Alpha Chi Omega journey inspire you?
REAL. STRONG. WOMEN.
"Previously mainly men were allowed to represent IBM
Sylvia
doing this," Sylvia says. "I helped with women becoming
recognized for their abilities in technical positions."
Her stories from her time in the field range far and
Miller Foster
wide. When installing systems at military facilities, she
remembers guards clearing out the men's restrooms
for her, since there were no women's restrooms on-site.
She also recalls warning her mother that she and her
neighbors might be asked some questions as Sylvia was
BETA ETA (FLORIDA STATE UNIVERSITY)
investigated prior to receiving top security clearance
for system installations at places like Camp David. Her
T
oday, the internet is available nearly
mother forgot, which made for an interesting phone
everywhere we go, but in the 1960s, there was
call with her daughter!
no internet, not to mention smartphones or
even personal computers. It was during this time that
Sylvia later took her skills to other companies and
Sylvia Miller Foster was hired for her first post-graduate
institutions, including AT&T, the American Council
job with IBM.
on Higher Education and Hillsborough Community
College, where she helped develop the computer
"IBM offered me a job after taking an IQ test and a
sciences associates program. In the 1970s and 80s, she
programming aptitude test when they interviewed me
turned down assignments on a promotion track SO that
at FSU's job placement office my senior year," Sylvia
she could help her aging parents and raise her child as
recalls. "I had other job offers in chemistry, which
a single mother. "I always chose my family first, which
was my major, but I decided to join IBM where the
I do not regret," she says. "They still mean the most to
training in a new field and opportunities looked more
me."
promising."
Sylvia credits her Alpha Chi Omega experiences in
Sylvia was trained as a programmer and became a
helping her in her career, from serving as rush chair in
technical project manager, traveling throughout the U.S.
college all the way through her many volunteer roles as
and Europe for
an alumna, including as an alumnae chapter president,
IBM installing
a province alumnae chair and still today as a member of
systems and
the National Alumna Initiate Panel. She is also an active
training
volunteer with her church and was recognized by the
customers. Not
Tampa chapter of the National Organization of Women
only was Sylvia
for her contributions as chair of the Hillsborough City
embarking on
Commission on the Status of Women. Sylvia shares
a new path for
that good government is important to her, and she has
herself and for
been the manager of local campaigns to help ensure
the future of
outstanding candidates are elected to public office.
technology, she
She continues today to serve as block captain in her
was also one of
community for her political party.
the few women
doing this work.
"Sylvia has never been reluctant to volunteer for
worthy causes and continues to do SO year after
year," her nominator wrote. "She sets an example for
SYLVIA MILLER FOSTER - PHOTO CREDIT: JOAN
JARSEN (IOTA ALPHA, ALUMNAE INITIATES)
others to strive to do better to help individuals and
organizations."
When asked what being a real, strong woman means
to her, Sylvia shares, "She is not afraid to take on new
challenges. She is able to learn from mistakes and keeps
on trying until she is successful in accomplishing her goals.
She is willing to take the time to mentor other women.
She is confident and positive thinking, SO that whatever
happens, she looks for the good in each day. She does not
ZOILA Y. ALVAREZ HERNÁNDEZ
give up and tries to inspire others to do likewise."
Another important part of her Alpha Chi Omega
In her professional and personal life, Sylvia's actions
experience was that it provided her the space and
mirror her words as she embodies the ideals of a real,
encouragement to focus on school, something that wasn't
strong woman.
the norm for the women in the traditional Mexican
family she grew up in. As an undocumented member, a
"DREAMer" (a recipient of the Development, Relief, and
Zoila y
Education for Alien Minors Act) and eventually a DACA
(Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals) recipient, Zoila
was motivated to achieve more academic firsts for her
family - first to earn a college degree, a master's degree and
Alvarez
a law degree.
"Education is important to me because my mom always
wanted us to have the ability to bet on ourselves. My
Hernandez
mom raised my three sisters and me with the mentality
that things come and go, even relationships, but 'tu
educación is something no one can ever take away from
you," Zoila explains.
ALPHA GAMMA (THE UNIVERSITY OF NEW MEXICO)
Zoila and her mother are survivors of domestic violence,
and Zoila's life after experiencing that as a teen has
fter becoming the first in her family to graduate
A
been a testament to empowerment. She says Alpha Chi
high school, Zoila Y. Alvarez Hernández set off
Omega helped her heal from the trauma and then
for college with the mission of having "the all-
turn that healing into advocacy by supporting other
American college experience." The women of Alpha Chi
survivors, increasing awareness and raising funds as
Omega gave her that, and SO much more.
part of our national philanthropy. Her commitment
to this advocacy continued during law school when
"Alpha Chi Omega gave me a group of women I could
she interned at the Harvard Immigration and Refugee
look up to because you can't be what you can't see,"
Clinic in Boston, serving as an advocate to migrant
Zoila says. "In our sisterhood, I saw women supporting
women who were victims of domestic violence, sexual
women, celebrating each other's successes and holding
assault and violent crimes.
each other accountable. It also gave me the confidence
to love myself and see my skin, my language and my
All of this was in pursuit of her dream. "[My]
culture as assets instead of differences."
professional aim has always been to become an attorney
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who serves the local community through litigation,
legislation and advocacy work around immigration and
education policy issues," she says. "I am committed to
using research and the law as a foundation to create
Shana
innovative solutions for improving policies and access
to legal services for all New Mexicans."
Zoila is now living her dream as an immigrant rights
Prozyle
attorney at the ACLU of New Mexico as a Corinne
Wolfe Fellow for Transformative Advocacy. In her
first year of practice, she was selected for the Latina
Leadership Academy by the Hispanic National Bar
Siggel
Association. There she learned that currently, Latinas
comprise just 2% of all lawyers, even though they
DELTA MU (UNIVERSITY OF MASSACHUSETTS)
represent 25% of women in the United States. Zoila says
her professional achievements and joining that small
percentage would not have been possible without the
ven in 2021, the world of finance and investing
professional development she received as an Alpha Chi.
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is still perceived as a boys' club. But one
Alpha Chi Omega sister is out to change
Zoila shares that her greatest accomplishment has been
that, encouraging women to improve their financial
never giving up on her dreams despite all the obstacles.
literacy and own their place in the industry. The chief
When she didn't get into UNM law school on her first
investment officer at Spotlight Asset Group, Inc., Shana
try, she studied harder for the LSAT, earned a master's
Orczyk Sissel was named a 2020 Citywire USA winner
degree in education between law school admission
of the Women Driving Change in Manager Research &
cycles, and then applied again and received admission.
Investment Due Diligence Award and a 2019 finalist for
After not passing the bar exam on her first attempt, she
Index Portfolio Manager of the Year at the Women in
recommitted to hard work and passed - all while raising
Asset Management Awards.
her baby and working in her new job at the ACLU of
New Mexico.
The awards are well-deserved recognition, but for
Shana, the opportunity to be a visible role model for
Through it all, she reflects on her Alpha Chi Omega
women in the finance industry is her drive. She is a
experience as a key part of her journey.
spokesperson for Women in ETFs, an organization
dedicated to improving gender diversity in the
"My interest in service to others was one key reason
investment industry, and has made appearances on
I joined Alpha Chi Omega," she says. "I love our
CNBC, Bloomberg and Fox Business. "I am amazed by
membership values, our sisterhood's constant striving
how often young women send me messages thanking me
to 'seek the heights' and 'shed the light of love and
for blazing a path for them and showing them what is
friendship round me.' My AXO Zebras (the nickname
possible," Shana says. "It makes me feel validated that what
her new member class of 2005 gave themselves) are my
I am doing is making a difference."
village. I can't even tell you how many sisters, Alpha Chi
Omega advisors and Greek life advisors inspired me,
That difference is even more important when you
pushed me and polished me to be a better advocate,
consider the high number of women who feel
leader and professional."
financially illiterate alongside the fact reported by the
World Economic Forum that U.S. women are expected
to become the primary investment decision-makers for
two-thirds of the nation's wealth in the next 10 years.
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have made me stronger and more resilient," she wrote in
a blog post for Love What Matters.
"To say that I greatly admire Shana's perseverance in
the midst of adversity is an understatement," Shana's
nominator wrote in her award application. "With all
the challenges that she's faced she continues to shine
in her career and life."
Shana adds, "It is in my resilience that I hope to inspire
other women and show them that the journey to
success isn't always an easy one. You will face challenges
again and again. Success will only come when you face
SHANA ORCZYK SISSEL - PHOTO CREDIT: AUSTIN RYDE
those challenges head on and not let the difficulty deter
you from continuing down the path toward your goals."
"It's critical that women feel confident managing
money, as the burden to do SO will fall squarely on them
in the coming decades," Shana explains. "Women are
capable of great things and should not be ashamed of
wanting to learn more about the world of finance or
Martha
wanting to pursue a career that is financially lucrative."
The mindset of women supporting women is something
Shana built from her Alpha Chi Omega experience.
(Hein)
"Everything I do, everything that has driven my passions
and success personally and professionally stems from
that foundation," she shares. "There is nothing more
powerful than a group of women who unabashedly
Watson
cheer on each other and help each other succeed."
Shana also leans on her own resilience and ability to
THETA (UNIVERSITY OF MICHIGAN)
grow from challenges. Not only has she rebounded
from two job losses in two years, she is also a survivor
of two terrorist attacks. On September 11, 2001, Shana
I
n addition to her professional role as a health care
consultant, Martha (Hein) Watson is a lobbyist, a
was on the 64th floor of 2 World Trade Center attending
networker, a fundraiser, a supporter and a volunteer.
a seminar when she saw ash falling outside the
But the role she is proudest of is being a mother. "My
windows, followed by a fireball. She was in the stairwell
greatest accomplishment is being a dedicated mother
evacuating when the second plane hit the tower;
to a brilliant, kind, beautiful, talented daughter,
she made it out of the building and away before it
supporting her every effort throughout her short but
collapsed. Less than 12 years later, Shana was just blocks
accomplished 21-year life, including her fight against
away from the finish line of the Boston Marathon when
anorexia nervosa," Martha says.
bombs exploded.
In 2016, Martha's daughter Elizabeth lost her 10-year
"Being SO intimately impacted by two of the worst
battle with the disease. Martha reflects, "I was her mom,
terrorist attacks in U.S. history could easily have
teacher, coach, cheerleader, mentor, advocate, friend and
destroyed me, but in fact I believe these experiences
occasional enemy. While she is no longer with us here
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on Earth, I will always be her mother, and I have tried
planning or providing distractions during or after meals,
in the years since her death to carry on her dreams of
and emotional support. "Recognize your loved one is
positively impacting eating disorders."
not defined by their eating disorder and that they will
need love and support as they navigate the recovery
That public-facing work started just after Elizabeth's
process," Martha explains. "Love them unconditionally."
death, when Martha and her husband chose to openly
share Elizabeth's battle with anorexia nervosa in her
Her work is rooted in connections, and she maintains
obituary. Often, mental health and eating disorders
contact with patients her daughter met during
are not included in obituaries, but it was important to
treatment and the clinicians who treated her. Martha's
Martha (and Elizabeth) to help lift the stigma associated
loss also allows her to be an empathetic volunteer
with these biopsychosocial diseases.
facilitator at The Highmark Caring Place, which helps
children and families process losing a loved one.
"She passed away during National Eating Disorders
Awareness Week, and I made a commitment to myself
Connections have been instrumental for Martha,
to do something every year to raise awareness and erase
particularly the connections with her Alpha Chi Omega
stigma," Martha explains.
sisters. They provided a helping hand, like caring for
her home and making meals, during Elizabeth's stays
Martha's work to end eating disorders and support
in hospitals. When Elizabeth passed away, 61 sisters
those in the battle stretches far and wide. She has
contributed to a wreath of roses and carnations.
lobbied lawmakers with the Eating Disorders Coalition
Alpha Chi Omegas across the country - from Martha's
for legislation to increase the sharing of eating disorder
collegiate experience, alumnae involvement and
resources at schools as well as to improve insurance
volunteering - also provide support in her NEDA
coverage for support. She also raises funds for the
fundraising efforts.
National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA); in 2020,
her team at the NEDA Walk had the second-highest
"The level of support I have received from these lifelong
national fundraising total, with Martha raising the
bonds really overwhelms me, and I am grateful for this
highest individual amount in her region.
constant in my life," Martha says. "These real, strong
women lift me up, support me and model leadership,
Martha shares advice with sisters for supporting
humility and grace."
someone with an eating disorder. She emphasizes the
importance of confronting eating disorders head on and
Martha knows the grief of losing her daughter will
helping your loved one find a specialized professional
never go away, but her work allows her to honor both
team, including a physician, therapist and dietician.
Elizabeth and her desire to understand eating disorders
Support is crucial - both tangible support, like meal
and improve treatment for others.
"My daughter very much wanted to change the world
SO that no one else needed to suffer as she did with
this illness, and I hope she would be proud of the work
I have done to make a difference," Martha shares. "If
my efforts have helped one person recover from this
insidious disease, it has all been worth it."
For resources to get screened or find support for an eating
disorder, Martha suggests the National Eating Disorders
Association at nationaleatingdisorders.org.
MARTHA WATSON
Who Do you Know?
Our members are the best resource for helping recruit real,
strong women into the Alpha Chi Omega sisterhood.
If you know a remarkable young woman who plans to participate
in recruitment on her campus, our online recommendation form
is the best way to let the chapter know!
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MAKING A DIFFERENCE
Stronger Together
BY LAUREN FILIPPINI
"I didn't tell anybody I had epilepsy until my sophomore
(ALPHA CHI, BUTLER UNIVERSITY), EDITOR
year because I was SO scared of what people would think
of me," she says. But eventually, she told her Alpha Chi
W
hen Brooklyn Mengarelli, a Chi Omega at
Omega sisters, who responded with love and support. "It
the University of Arizona, passed away in
made me feel a lot more comfortable to know they were
April 2020 from a seizure due to epilepsy,
there supporting me and not judging me."
the entire campus community was impacted. The story
hit especially hard for Alpha Chi Omega sister Olivia
In spring 2020, Olivia remembers seeing social media posts
Garcia, a member of the Beta Lambda chapter, who has
about a classmate who had passed away and eventually
been living with epilepsy for years.
learned that Brooklyn had a seizure while in a hot tub and
drowned. Though Olivia had never met Brooklyn, they
"When I saw that, I honestly couldn't breathe," Olivia
shared this connection of epilepsy. Olivia couldn't stop
remembers. "I'd never seen someone else struggling
thinking about Brooklyn, her own journey with epilepsy
with epilepsy. I was in such shock."
and what she could do. Finally, she woke up one morning
with one clear goal: to create a nonprofit organization that
Olivia turned that shock into action and founded the
would help others with epilepsy feel comfortable and see
Brooklyn Foundation to provide awareness about
their value.
epilepsy and support to children and young adults who
have been diagnosed. Though the foundation is less
"Once I had established what I wanted to do, even
than a year old, it has already made a huge impact on
that first morning, my mindset for the rest of my life
others - and on Olivia herself.
completely changed," Olivia says. "At points, I would let
it [epilepsy] define who I was and take control of my
According to the Mayo Clinic, epilepsy is a central nervous
life. At the point I decided to create the nonprofit, it
system disorder in which brain activity becomes abnormal,
was a decision to say, 'That's it. I'm not letting it take
causing seizures or periods of unusual behavior, sensations
ownership of who I am.' I haven't looked back since the
and sometimes loss of awareness.
day I decided to do this foundation."
Olivia was diagnosed with epilepsy in 2016. Not
Olivia reached out to Brooklyn's family, listening to the
only did she have to learn to manage her diagnosis
stories they told her about Brooklyn and sharing her
with medication, she also had to work through the
own journey with epilepsy with them.
emotional toll her diagnosis took on her. "I always felt
OLIVIA GARCIA
that people would look at me differently if I told them
I had epilepsy," Olivia remembers. "I always felt that I
couldn't be enough."
She tried to hold on to her mom's advice - that epilepsy
didn't define who she was, it was just part of who she was.
But it was difficult to follow that advice when people
around her didn't understand the severity of epilepsy
and made jokes about triggering seizures. So she kept
her epilepsy a secret through high school and the start of
college, afraid that she would be labeled as "different."
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"It was a decision to say,
'That's it. I'm not letting it
take ownership of who I am.
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thing we want is for them to worry about paying off
a medical bill," Olivia says. "We want them to focus on
getting better and being healthy."
One of the most special moments for Olivia happened
just after the foundation's launch, when Brooklyn's
family reached out to thank Olivia and let her know
OLIVIA (SECOND FROM RIGHT) WITH
how proud they were that something good came out
CHAPTER SISTERS
of losing Brooklyn. "It made all the struggles I've gone
through in my life, every single moment I've cried since
"She just really inspired me," Olivia says. "She was
I was diagnosed, worth it," she says.
such a big believer in her faith like I am, and she did
everything right Seizures come when you don't expect
Olivia was also amazed by the support she received
them. She had no control over it, and there was nothing
from the University of Arizona's fraternity/sorority
she could have done."
community. "Greek life really came together when
Brooklyn passed, and when I announced the
With permission to use Brooklyn's name and story, along
foundation, I got support from every single chapter
with plans and goals for the nonprofit, Olivia launched the
here, and I still get continuous support," she says. "Being
Brooklyn Foundation in October 2020. Its mission is to
in a sorority is another beautiful thing about this
inspire and empower young adults and children who are
journey."
diagnosed with epilepsy by providing them with support
to fight alongside them in their effort to end epilepsy.
The support of her Alpha Chi Omega sisters was
extra special for Olivia - support for the Brooklyn
Part of this work is done through a support network
Foundation and for Olivia on her own journey. "[In
called Stronger Together. A person with epilepsy (or
Alpha Chi Omega] everybody knows that everybody
their family) can submit their information via an
is different in such a beautiful way, and I think that's
online form, and the foundation will help connect
what made my story come out SO much easier," she
them to others who are on the same journey, providing
says. "I knew I'd have that support of Alpha Chi Omega
them an outlet and support. Olivia says her goal is to
because they made me feel comfortable about who I
grow the support network SO she can create age-specific
was."
support groups, and she's already heard from families
across the country.
She adds, "If I never joined a sorority, especially
Alpha Chi Omega, I don't think I'd be where I am today.
Another part of the foundation is called Brooklyn's
It's made me the woman I am."
Blessings, which provides material support for families
struggling with the financial costs of epilepsy. "The last
Learn more at thebrooklynfoundation.org.
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Continuing to Support
I
n the spring 2021 issue of The Lyre, we shared a
SO we watched Halloweentown and called the event
few examples of how our alumnae chapters are
Alpha Chi Fright Fest!
continuing their service and philanthropy work
during the pandemic. Now, we share some of the
To follow protocol, everyone stayed in their cars and
creativity of our collegiate chapters. Campus health and
maintained social distancing. We also encouraged
safety guidelines may have prevented traditional in-
everyone to attend with their roommates to limit
person events, but our collegians' passion for domestic
exposure and wear masks when not in their cars.
violence awareness has been in full force. Whether
raising funds for their local shelter or raising awareness,
We rented a blow-up screen and placed it on top of two
our collegiate women are continuing to be champions
cars SO that everyone could see. We hosted the event in
of change and living out our mission statement to
one of our campus parking lots since it was bigger than
connect, lead, grow and serve.
the parking lot at the house. We rented a projector to play
the movie and speakers, and we had a sister in a car in the
middle of the lot connect her phone to a radio transmitter
BETA SIGMA
and play the movie on her phone SO that everyone could
(UNIVERSITY OF GEORGIA)
tune in to that radio station to hear it in their cars.
BY GRACIE ONEY-HANSEN,
In total, we raised $6,290 to donate to Project Safe, which
VICE PRESIDENT PHILANTHROPY
is our local shelter for survivors of domestic violence.
When we started thinking about the fall philanthropy
Not only did we raise money for Project Safe, but we also
event, our number one priority was to follow CDC
gave our members and other students at UGA a sense of
guidelines and COVID-19 precautions. With that in
normalcy during these unprecedented times. Everyone
mind, we wanted to find a way to have an in-person
had a great time and was very grateful for an in-person
philanthropy event to create some sense of normalcy
event! We got to spend time with our sisters, fundraise for
for our members as well as the local community who
our philanthropy and watch a Halloween classic all in one.
wanted to attend. So our team came up with the idea to
It really was the perfect night.
host a drive-in movie! The event was before Halloween,
GAMMA THETA
(UNIVERSITY OF MARYLAND)
BY HOLLY PESLIS,
VICE PRESIDENT PHILANTHROPY
At the University of Maryland Gamma Theta chapter,
we are dedicated to continuing our support for women
affected by domestic violence. Our chapter works
specifically with the House of Ruth in Baltimore,
Maryland, which provides shelter and a series of helpful
resources for survivors of domestic violence and their
children. While COVID-19 has made it much harder to
volunteer and hold in-person fundraising events, we have
BETA SIGMA SISTERS ATTENDING ALPHA CHI FRIGHT FEST
not and will not give up on domestic violence awareness.
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KAPPA TAU
(UNIVERSITY OF CONNECTICUT)
BY PHOENIX HOLDEN, EVENT ORGANIZER
The Philanthropy Photo Hunt hosted by Alpha Chi
Omega and Alpha Phi was open to the entire
Panhellenic community at UConn. Women paid to
register as teams or individuals, and proceeds benefited
the Willimantic Women's Shelter, as well as the
70 GAMMA THETA SISTERS JOINED THE ZOOM CALL TO
MAKE VALENTINE'S DAY CARDS FOR SHELTER RESIDENTS.
Alpha Phi Foundation for Heart Health.
HERE ARE JUST A FEW WHO POSED FOR A PICTURE!
Many of the photo ops were simple, like "take a photo
During Healthy Relationships Week this year, we made it
with the Jonathan statue for 5 points." Others entailed
a point to celebrate different kinds of healthy relationships
more effort or creativity and might be worth 20 or 50
and educate others on what a healthy relationship should
points: handstands in front of participants' favorite
look like. We used social media to fundraise, and we raised
buildings, community involvement or showing off favorite
$652 to buy the entire House of Ruth Amazon Wish List,
study spots! Women were encouraged to use any sort of
even adding multiples of a few of the items.
camera, to have fun, to participate with roommates and,
of course, to mask up. Prizes - hand-curated gift baskets -
In addition, we still wanted to get involved with House
were awarded to winners who scored the first and second
of Ruth on a more personal level, even though we
highest numbers of points overall.
could not physically be there to volunteer. Instead, we
did a chapter-wide Zoom event for an hour, where we
listened to fun music, talked and made Valentine's Day
cards for the women at the House of Ruth. In total, we
made 87 cards, some made digitally from our sisters at
home and some handmade that were safely dropped off
and picked up around campus. Our chapter president,
Nia Dougherty, and I drove to the House of Ruth
Donation Center to drop off the cards to ensure that
they were delivered in time for Valentine's Day.
It was a great experience for our chapter to continue
SISTERS POSE WITH A STATUE OF THE UCONN MASCOT,
our involvement with DVA, while also continuing to
JONATHAN, AS PART OF THE PHOTO HUNT HOSTED BY
bond as a chapter during a time when that has become
THE KAPPA TAU CHAPTER OF ALPHA CHI OMEGA AND THE
much more difficult.
IOTA LAMBDA CHAPTER OF ALPHA PHI.
COMMUNITY IMPACT PROGRAM
THE KAPPA TAU AND BETA SIGMA CHAPTERS, LIKE MANY
TO MAKE TAX-DEDUCTIBLE DONATIONS TO THE EVENT.
OTHER COLLEGIATE AND ALUMNAE CHAPTERS ACROSS
CHAPTERS CHOOSE WHAT PORTION OF THE PROCEEDS TO
THE COUNTRY, PARTICIPATED IN THE ALPHA CHI OMEGA
DONATE TO THE FOUNDATION, AND THE REMAINDER IS
FOUNDATION'S COMMUNITY IMPACT (CI) PROGRAM
SENT TO THE CHAPTER'S SELECTED DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
DURING THEIR PHILANTHROPY EVENTS.
AGENCY OR OTHER NONPROFIT.
PARTICIPATING IN THE CI PROGRAM INCLUDES ACCESS TO
LEARN MORE ON THE "CHAPTER GIVING AND COMMUNITY
CROWDCHANGE, AN ONLINE FUNDRAISING PLATFORM,
IMPACT" PAGE IN THE FOUNDATION SECTION OF OUR
AT NO COST TO THE CHAPTER THAT ALLOWS DONORS
WEBSITE.
Hill Visits Go Virtual
BY LAUREN FILIPPINI (ALPHA CHI, BUTLER UNIVERSITY), EDITOR
ach year, sorority women of all ages, along
"All the staffers and the Congresswoman we met with
E
with their fraternity peers, make their way to
were lovely and engaged," says alumna Sonya Hough
Washington, D.C. for the Fraternal Government
(Gamma Omicron, Marshall University), who led a
Relations Coalition (FGRC) Capitol Hill Visits. Days
team of collegians from Oklahoma. "In added bonus,
are packed with training, networking and meeting
every staffer had been a member of a sorority, which
with elected representatives to advocate for the issues
really helped in them understanding and relating to
important to our fraternal organizations.
our policy agenda. Congresswoman [Stephanie] Bice (a
member of the Gamma Epsilon chapter at Oklahoma
In 2021, like SO many other events, the visits went
State University) took time out of her vote session on
virtual! "This year's visits looked similar to what most
the floor to meet with us in a coat closet off of the
of 2020 looked like: a Zoom screen," says Amanda
chamber via Zoom."
Faulkenberg (Alpha, DePauw University), the National
Panhellenic Conference's executive manager. "The hectic
"Discussing shared experiences and a uniform vision
and exciting dashes between meetings on Capitol Hill
for the future with women from other sororities is
were replaced with what we hoped was a more relaxed
truly empowering," alumna Carmen Rene (Gamma
schedule. Participants in the meetings were able to join
Delta, University of Denver) shares. "It's nice to share
from their computer."
views with members of Alpha Chi Omega, but I really
enjoy the expanded sisterhood that I get lobbying with
Through a combination of emails, videos and virtual
women from other sororities."
group meetings, participants learned about the history
of the FGRC Capitol Hill Visits, advice for advocating
In addition to smaller Zoom meetings, the transition to
and the two main topics they would be advocating
a virtual experience also provided the opportunity for
for: freedom of association and anti-hazing. Then, on
a new kind of event. Amanda explains, "Being virtual
April 13-15, teams of collegians and alumnae attended
this year has actually presented a cool opportunity in
virtual visits with elected officials and their staffs. They
the form of marquee meetings. They were broadcast
shared the need to protect the fraternal experience
using a webinar, versus a meeting platform, to allow
and students' right to freely associate with a single-
for many more students, staff and volunteers to engage
sex organization, as well as the need for anti-hazing
and watch the process unfold." This year, more than 200
legislation (see sidebar for details).
participants - men and women, students and alumni
- were able to attend these virtual visits, sharing the
power of the fraternal experience with elected officials.
Alpha Chi Omega "sent" its largest delegation, with
Edgar Hernandez
eight collegiate members and nine alumnae members.
When asked why she was interested in attending,
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Sonya says, "The best part of
and for them to be aware that legislative help is
ATTENDEES
all? We were able to obtain
necessary to protect us," Carmen explains. "If you would
commitment and interest from
like to help, please educate yourself on the issues and
all the staffers we met with to
make a commitment to ask your members of Congress
seriously consider co-sponsoring
to support three pieces of legislation: the CFAA, the
the legislation we were
END ALL Hazing Act and the REACH Act."
advocating for. I could not have
asked for a better outcome, and
"You really can make a difference by making your voice
that hard work paid off."
heard," Sonya shares. "I think sometimes people are
SONYA HOUGH
intimidated by the legislative process or think it may
"My favorite part of the whole
be a waste of time to advocate for their chosen issue or
experience was seeing how
for themselves. I can't stress enough that lending your
small of a world we live in," says
voice to an effort or even just calling your local, state or
collegian Sarah Simmons (Beta
federal representative can make a difference."
Xi, Utah State University). "On
the team, we all had connections
Sarah echoes that: "Sisters, I urge you that in whatever
to each other. Whether we were
you are passionate about, there is a need for your voice
CARMEN RENE
a part of the same sisterhood
to be heard. There is always an issue that needs your
or brotherhood, same interests,
input and personal experience. Research what you can,
same university, it was SO cool to
meet with who you must and speak your piece."
see how we are all connected by
the Greek system."
THE LEGISLATION
Amanda explains that NPC
CFAA (COLLEGIATE FREEDOM OF ASSOCIATION
felt it was important to
ACT): WOULD GIVE STUDENTS OR GROUPS OF
prioritize transitioning this
STUDENTS THE RIGHT TO FORM OR JOIN SOCIAL
SARAH SIMMONS
event to virtual, pointing to the
ORGANIZATIONS, INCLUDING SINGLE-SEX
ORGANIZATIONS
NPC mission that states, "The National Panhellenic
Conference is the premier advocacy and support
CHIA (COLLEGIATE HOUSING AND INFRASTRUCTURE
organization for the advancement of the sorority
ACT): WOULD ALLOW TAX-EXEMPT CHARITABLE OR
experience." She adds, "Giving our students the chance
EDUCATIONAL ORGANIZATIONS TO MAKE COLLEGIATE
to see and participate in the work we engage in on
HOUSING AND INFRASTRUCTURE GRANTS TO
a regular basis is something we were willing to go
CERTAIN TAX-EXEMPT SOCIAL CLUBS WHICH APPLY
SUCH GRANTS TO COLLEGIATE HOUSING PROPERTY
through some hoops to accomplish."
END ALL (EDUCATIONAL NOTIFICATION AND
Sarah certainly benefitted from the visits, explaining,
DISCLOSURE OF ACTIONS RISKING LOSS OF LIFE
"I learned that there is more to legislation than just
BY) HAZING ACT: WOULD REQUIRE INSTITUTIONS OF
making a bill and having it voted through Congress.
HIGHER EDUCATION THAT PARTICIPATE IN FEDERAL
Behind-the-scenes work is crucial to anything being
STUDENT-AID PROGRAMS TO COLLECT INFORMATION
AND PUBLICLY REPORT ON HAZING-RELATED
pushed through in D.C., and I am more appreciative of
MISCONDUCT
the work that is needed to make things roll forward."
REACH (REPORT AND EDUCATE ABOUT CAMPUS
Advocacy work doesn't end with the Hill Visits; it's a
HAZING) ACT: WOULD REQUIRE INSTITUTIONS
year-round effort, and it needs all our sisters joining
OF HIGHER EDUCATION TO DISCLOSE HAZING
in! "I want our members to understand that our very
INCIDENTS REPORTED TO CAMPUS SECURITY
existence may be at risk under the current environment,
OR LOCAL POLICE, AS WELL AS REQUIRE THOSE
INSTITUTIONS TO PROVIDE STUDENTS WITH A HAZING
EDUCATIONAL PROGRAM
INDUSTRY INFO
An AXQ on the NPC Board
BY LAUREN FILIPPINI
(ALPHA CHI, BUTLER UNIVERSITY), EDITOR
A
Ipha Chi Omega sister Jen Daurora was elected
noting that her Panhellenic involvement began as a
to the National Panhellenic Conference (NPC)
collegian when she served on her College Panhellenic
Board of Directors for the upcoming term. An
Association's executive board.
initiate of the Delta chapter at Allegheny College, Jen
will serve alongside six Panhellenic women to set the
Jen is one of five women on the Board of Directors who
strategic direction for NPC
were elected by the Council of Delegates, which is made
and advance the sorority
up of one delegate from each of the 26 NPC member
experience.
organizations. Two additional women on the Board of
Directors have been appointed as part of the rotation
"I was drawn to the
through the 26 member organizations. As a director,
opportunity to serve
Jen will be responsible for establishing corporate policy,
on the NPC board
overseeing and securing resources, and monitoring
because I believe in the
organizational performances. Jen and the board will
transformative power of
begin their service July 1, 2021 and will serve through
the sorority experience
June 30, 2023.
and I want to help NPC
JEN DAURORA
evolve and grow SO that we
"I know that many challenges lie ahead, from changing
can collectively reach more
demographics and risk management issues to helping
women," Jen says. "I believe that as the Panhellenic
NPC evolve as an organization," Jen says. "At the same
experience reaches more campuses and potential new
time, I am energized by the opportunity to help the
members, Alpha Chi Omega will grow and benefit."
Panhellenic community move forward SO that we all
can benefit, together."
For Alpha Chi Omega, Jen currently serves as a director
for the National Housing Corporation. Before that,
Alpha Chi Omega would also like to acknowledge
she served as vice president and secretary/treasurer
the service of Mary Kacmarcik Baker (Delta Mu,
of the National Council. For NPC, Jen most recently
University of Massachusetts) as she completes her term
volunteered as a facilitator for the College Panhellenic
as a member of the 2019-21 NPC Board of Directors.
Academy and provided instrumental support to
Mary was elected to serve on the first board under the
sororities navigating the COVID-19 pandemic as a
organization's new governance and structure model.
member of the Disruption to Panhellenic Operations
As a director, she was instrumental not only in carrying
Task Force. In the past, she has served as chair of the
out this new model but also in supporting sorority
NPC Public Relations and Marketing Think Tank, as
women during the COVID-19 pandemic.
alternate NPC delegate for Alpha Chi Omega, and as a
member of NPC's Strategic Planning Committee and
We are grateful for the leadership of these sisters and
Long Range Plan Committee.
all those who work to advance the sorority experience
through their support of NPC.
"Personally, I believe in striving for the collective good,
SO opportunity presented by improving an experience
Visit npcwomen.org to learn more about the work of NPC.
for many women has always been appealing," she shares,
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Social Media
Empowerment
BY LAUREN FILIPPINI
(ALPHA CHI, BUTLER UNIVERSITY), EDITOR
W
ith a few keystrokes and the click of a
button, you can share your thoughts,
feelings and photos with countless people
across the world. Social media (sites like Twitter, Facebook
and Instagram) has changed the way we communicate and
allowed people to bypass traditional media like newspaper
and TV to share their content directly with others. Meet
two sisters who are using social media to share their
perspectives and expertise, all the while empowering their
PHOTO CREDIT: LYDIA HUDGENS
followers to reach new heights.
ANA BATISTA
the outdated 'beauty standard,' and it's finally showing in
@VIVALACURVY
the media, which is a huge game-changer and is impacting
the younger population in a positive way."
You'd never know from looking at her photos that Ana
Batista (Theta Psi, Columbia University) didn't always
In addition to modeling and building her social media
view herself as a model. It took her attending an event
platforms, Ana works for a women's health tech startup
led by a plus-size model and hearing about her journey
in New York City. As if her life wasn't busy enough,
that Ana realized she could find her own space in the
she is also the president of the Gamma Gamma (New
fashion industry.
York City, New York) alumnae chapter! Ana credits her
work ethic to being raised by immigrant parents who
"I believe it took other people seeing me as a model
instilled in her the value of hard work.
first before I could see myself as one," Ana shares. "I'll
admit, I still look at photos and think, 'Whoa - that's
"I've always been taught that if I work hard, I can
me. I'm a model!"
achieve whatever I put my mind to, and that mindset
has absolutely stayed with me and gotten me to where
Using the name Ana Laura for modeling, this sister lives
I am today," she says. That hard work was recently
out her social media handle, Viva La Curvy, and hopes to
rewarded when Ana was named a member of the
one day turn it into a full-fledged brand. While she wishes
Refinery29 Somos Class of 2020, recognizing eight
she had seen more plus-size models growing up to give her
Latinas who are uplifting, empowering and making a
confidence as she entered the industry, she is now working
difference in their communities.
to be that example, empowering women of all shapes and
sizes to believe they, too, deserve to shine.
An empowered woman is a strong woman, and Ana
learned her own strength when she left an abusive
"Beauty can be found in everyone's unique look," Ana says.
relationship in college."I stayed longer and tolerated the
"We are becoming more exposed to people who do not fit
treatment because I was more concerned about being
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alone and not being attractive to other men if I left," she
shares. "I learned, especially through modeling, that size
does not dictate beauty and does not mean I am any
less worthy of a healthy and loving relationship. I also
learned I had to truly love myself before I could enter
another relationship!"
This connection to Alpha Chi Omega's philanthropy
of domestic violence awareness was one of the reasons
THE CAR MO
she was drawn to membership during college; another
was the Alpha Chi Omegas she met in classes and across
campus. She joined her senior year and has remained
involved since graduating. She's particularly proud of
Gamma Gamma's ability to transition its philanthropy
from an in-person event to a month-long virtual series
during the pandemic, resulting in more than $2,000
raised for shelters!
Ana's advice to sisters is rooted in both her Viva La
KELLY STUMPE
Curvy brand and our Real. Strong. Women. brand:
@THE_CAR_MOM
"Stand up for your values and what is right, uplift other
women, and be unapologetic and authentic in how you
During summer 2020, Kelly Stumpe (Delta Chi,
live and carry yourself."
William Woods University) had a toddler at home and
another child on the way and was thinking about how
difficult and scary it was to bring kids to a grocery store
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during the COVID-19 pandemic. With her job at her
CREDIT:
family's car dealership, her mind went to all the moms
LYDIA
who needed to buy a car and brave dealership after
HUDGENS
dealership with kids in tow.
"I thought, 'I wonder if I could give some car tours to
help moms decide if a car was worth pursuing or not,"
Kelly recalls. She thought these video tours, given from
a mom's perspective, could help women narrow down
their list of potential cars and improve their car-buying
experience.
What started with a few tours has grown into a social
media account called The Car Mom, which hit its
100,000th follower in March 2021, less than a year after
Kelly launched it. In addition to car tours, Kelly provides
advice to have a smoother car-buying process and to
empower women to negotiate for the best deal.
"As a woman in the business, I sympathize with people
being intimidated by the car-buying process," Kelly says. "I
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try to break down that wall and give women the tools."
COMMENT: A REACTION TO A POST, VISIBLE BY ALL
FOLLOWERS OF THE ACCOUNT
In fact, Kelly wants to share one of those tools with
DIRECT MESSAGE (DM): COMMUNICATION SENT
sisters: DealerRater.com. "One question I get all
PRIVATELY TO AN ACCOUNT, LIKE AN EMAIL
the time is, 'How do I get the salesman to take me
FOLLOWER: SOMEONE WHO HAS SUBSCRIBED TO
seriously?" she says. "You have to choose who your
AN ACCOUNT TO RECEIVE ALL UPDATES AND POSTS
salesperson is. That right there would instantly improve
your car-buying process."
HANDLE: THE USERNAME FOR AN ACCOUNT, OFTEN
BEGINNING WITH THE @ SYMBOL
Kelly explains that some of the best dealers are by
HASHTAG: A WORD OR PHRASE, BEGINNING WITH
appointment only, SO you won't happen upon them
THE # SYMBOL, THAT IDENTIFIES CONTENT AS PART
OF A SPECIFIC TOPIC
when you show up at a dealership, even one with great
reviews. By reading reviews of salespeople, you can
STORY: A FEATURE ON INSTAGRAM AND FACEBOOK
choose who you want to work with and even give your
THAT ALLOWS SOMEONE TO SHARE CONTENT FOR
business to another woman.
24 HOURS BEFORE IT IS REMOVED
Tips like this come from years of experience in the car
people realize how under-catered this market is," she
industry, but her expertise has its roots in Alpha Chi
says. "There are SO many women buying cars, and we
Omega. As a recruitment advisor for the Delta Chi
still weren't speaking their language or showing them
chapter, Kelly reminds the collegians each year how
what they want in a car."
transferrable their recruitment skills are: "I'm good at
selling cars because I was a good recruiter."
In addition to getting to tour some dream cars like the
Tesla SUV, Kelly is most proud of the community she has
With The Car Mom, Kelly wants to empower women to
created around the account. She's received messages from
feel comfortable buying a car and know what features
followers letting her know they're now talking cars with
they truly want as women and mothers - a need that
their friends and even from a woman who, through the
she hasn't seen filled elsewhere. She has built several
account, gained the confidence to buy a car on her own
lists of cars with features that are important to her as a
after losing her dad, who was her car-buying partner.
mom, such as cars with ceiling vents that provide better
airflow for kids sitting in the back seats. "I don't think
"I always want my platform to be a community," Kelly
emphasizes. "I'm one mom with one car seat setup with
one set of preferences. How I use a car may be different
from how you use a car."
While she still works in internet sales at her family's
dealership, Kelly has made The Car Mom a second
career. She hopes to eventually build an online course
for first-time car buyers to feel educated and prepared.
In the meantime, she'll keep growing her community
and empowering women to navigate successfully
through the car-buying process.
"I like cars a lot, but I'm not a typical gearhead," Kelly
says. "I don't know what torque means, but I get SO
hyped about a good cupholder, and that resonates with
people. Women are car people."
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Unbreakable Bond
BY LAURA KNOBEL (IOTA ALPHA,
degrees, advancing
ALUMNAE INITIATES), ASSISTANT DIRECTOR
her way through
OF LIFETIME ENGAGEMENT
a career in library
science and eventually
n their college years, many people want to forge
landing a dream job at
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their own path, to distinguish themselves as
Northeastern University.
unique and to experience the world all on their
own. When Kristin Flachsbart (Iota Alpha, Alumnae
But there is always
Initiates) left her childhood home in St. Louis to pursue
something that calls
a theater major at The College of Wooster in Ohio, she
you back home. She
was prepared to do exactly that.
eventually left her job in
Boston and took one in
KRISTIN FLACHSBART
"My mother [Sandra Heffley Flachsbart (Alpha Zeta,
rural Arkansas in order to
Washington University in St. Louis)] had always hoped
be closer to her mother, who was still living in St. Louis.
I would join a sorority. She said it didn't have to be
Alpha Chi, just to find the one that fit the best, but I
That decision proved to be bittersweet for Kristin when
knew deep down she hoped it would be Alpha Chi.
Sandra passed away unexpectedly in December 2018.
[Wooster] no longer had national [sororities] on
They had gotten more time together as Kristin had
campus, SO that hope of my mother's never happened,"
hoped, but "I wasn't worried about not having any
Kristin shares.
connections in Arkansas on weekends, since I was going
to be in St. Louis. I ended up feeling very alone."
After graduating from Wooster, Kristin went on
to establish herself as her own woman, earning a
When a loved one passes, suddenly the comfort of their
second bachelor's degree as well as two master's
presence is replaced with an ache for just one more
moment, one more connection. We
long for new memories or a story
about them never shared before.
For Kristin, those stories and that
connection ended up coming from
Sandra's Alpha Chi Omega sisters in
St. Louis, who sponsored Kristin for
membership through the National
Alumna Initiate Program (NAIP).
"After my mother died her Alpha Chi
sisters reached out in support. In the
fall of 2019, [they] contacted me again.
The 50th anniversary of Sigma Sigma
(St. Louis, Missouri) alumnae chapter
was in May 2020, and they decided
SANDRA (LEFT) WHEN SHE RECEIVED HER 50-YEAR MEMBERSHIP
MILESTONE PIN IN 2013
to honor my mother [and] invite me
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Alpha Chi Omega
Alpha Chi Omega
Alpha Chi Omega
to join Alpha Chi as an alumna
that an in-person initiation in St.
initiate."
Louis would not be an option.
Kristin knew that was exactly
Instead, Kristin participated in
what she needed to feel close to
the first ever virtual initiation
Sandra. "My mother always spoke
ceremony with a group of new
fondly of her sorority days with
alumnae members from across
Alpha Chi Omega I remember
the country. "My mom's sisters
how excited she was when she
from the alumnae chapter
learned a new neighbor was an
wouldn't be able to initiate me,
Alpha Chi; the path my mom
but they encouraged me to be
SANDRA FLACHSBART
took to walk the dog suddenly
a part of the virtual initiation
switched to walk by the new
since it was unknown when
neighbor's house, just in case she would be outside SO
a regular initiation would be able to happen. I was
they could chat."
grateful that there was an innovative way to continue
with the [ceremony]."
Receiving an invitation to join the organization that
was SO special to Sandra was humbling and exciting for
During a difficult season, Kristin has found much-
Kristin. "It was a link to a sisterhood that I had never
needed support by joining Alpha Chi Omega, the new
experienced, including people who knew my mother. It
friendships she is forming a mild salve for the ache that
was a way to be connected."
accompanies loss. She is eagerly anticipating a post-
COVID world when she can become active in person
Barbara Passanise (Alpha Zeta) is one of the people who
with Sigma Sigma.
is able to share new stories with Kristin about her mom.
"My fondest memories of Sandra are her enchanting
"I am looking forward to meeting the sisters who
and contagious smile as well as her pep and enthusiasm
sponsored me and wrote me kind congratulation notes,"
to participate in all the chapter activities. She was
she says. In the meantime, she plans to participate in
always SO much fun to be around and made everyone's
the virtual Alumnae Book Club on Facebook.
day a happy one," she says.
Across the country and back home again: Kristin's story
Charlotte Ellis (Alpha Zeta) is another of Sandra's
is a testament, both to the steadfastness of sisterhood
chapter sisters, and they stayed connected for many
and to the unbreakable bond that exists between
years after graduation. "Sandra and I were in the
mother and daughter.
same {member] class. She was always a lot of fun and
interested in all our activities. I met Kristin when she
IS THERE A SPECIAL WOMAN IN YOUR FAMILY
came to work at the library where I also worked. She
OR COMMUNITY YOU THINK WOULD MAKE A
reminded me SO much of her mom," she shares.
GREAT ALPHA CHI OMEGA? SPONSOR HER FOR
MEMBERSHIP THROUGH THE NATIONAL ALUMNA
Much like her move to Arkansas, Kristin's initiation
INITIATE PROGRAM.
experience was also bittersweet. Just as she was starting
LEARN MORE AT ALPHACHIOMEGA.ORG/NAIP
her education to become a member, the COVID-19
pandemic shut down the country, and it became clear
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1 GAMMA MU (BALL STATE UNIVERSITY)
3 BETA PI (WASHINGTON COLLEGE)
Bid Day was out of this world for the women of Gamma
The Beta Pi chapter couldn't wait to welcome home
Mu chapter this fall!
their new sisters on Bid Day this year!
2 DELTA EPSILON (SOUTHEAST MISSOURI
4 UPSILON (MILLIKIN UNIVERSITY)
STATE UNIVERSITY)
New members couldn't help falling in love with
Our Delta Epsilon women were ready to help their new
Alpha Chi during Bid Day!
sisters seek the heights starting on Bid Day!
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Courtney Severns
Abby (she/her)
Whisper
Grace Rowley
Grace
Begay
Kylee Moen
Maddy Owen
Katie
Colette Livermo...
Samantha Brau...
Presley Garza
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Stansb.
Camila Gabaldo..
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7 DELTA LAMBDA (RIPON COLLEGE)
New and lifetime members of Theta Iota chapter
It may have been cold outside, but sisterhood was
celebrated Bid Day 2021.
enough to keep our members warm on Bid Day!
6 BETA LAMBDA (UNIVERSITY OF ARIZONA)
8 COLLEGIANS IN OREGON
Chapter members accepted a plaque recognizing their
Led by alumna Audra Priluck (Alpha Psi, UCLA),
fundraising and volunteer work with Emerge! Center
collegians from the Delta Omicron (Portland State
Against Domestic Violence. With past and current
University) and Kappa Psi (Western Oregon University)
chapter officers in the photo is the center's development
chapters enjoyed a virtual song workshop.
manager, Andrea Carmichael.
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SANTA BARBARA)
Members of the 2021 executive board braved the snow
Every adventure is better with a sister by your side!
for bonding time at a photoshoot.
10 LAMBDA XI (AUGUSTA UNIVERSITY)
12 GAMMA RHO (TEXAS TECH UNIVERSITY)
Say hello to the next class of leaders - the 2021 executive
The perfect gameday attire wasn't complete this year
board of Lambda Xi chapter!
without a mask in school colors!
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13 ALPHA OMEGA (BIRMINGHAM-SOUTHERN
15 KAPPA SIGMA (THE UNIVERSITY OF
COLLEGE)
SOUTHERN MISSISSIPPI)
Sisters share their Alpha Chi pride outside their chapter
These members of Kappa Sigma chapter had a senior
facility.
year like no other, but there's no one else they'd rather
go through it all with!
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CAROLINA AT GREENSBORO)
The bright lights of Times Square were no match for the
radiance of our sisters!
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1 ALPHA OMICRON (THE OHIO STATE
3 EPSILON (UNIVERSITY OF SOUTHERN
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CALIFORNIA) ALUMNAE
Leigh (Fouts) Johnson shared her special day with
For Alpha Chi Night Out in February, chapter sisters
Alpha Chi Omega sisters from the Alpha Omicron (The
reunited over Zoom. For some, it was the first time they
Ohio State University) and Zeta Psi (Loyola University
had seen each other since graduation!
New Orleans) chapters.
4 DELTA MU DELTA (GAINESVILLE, FLORIDA)
2 IOTA NU IOTA (TREASURE COAST,
For their monthly lunch, alumnae chapter members
FLORIDA)
gathered at SweetBerries, owned by Jane Osmund
Members of the chapter presented Safe Space with a
(Gamma Iota, University of Florida). Their Alpha Chi
donation of $1,415 from their Sippin' for Safe Space
Omega masks were made by De'Atra Clark (Theta
event held for Alpha Chi Night Out.
Sigma, University of North Florida).
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To spread Alpha Chindness, chapter members delivered
Alumnae chapter sisters embraced the chilly weather for
candy and cookie treats to sisters for Valentine's Day.
a walk together.
"When you can put one smile on an Alpha Chi face, the
joy never ends," shares Sheri Baldwin (Phi, University of
8 ALPHA GAMMA ALPHA (ATLANTA,
Kansas).
GEORGIA)
Throughout March, sisters supported the Alma G. Davis
6 SIGMA SIGMA (ST. LOUIS, MISSOURI)
Foundation by collecting toiletry items for domestic
To celebrate both Hera Day and MacDowell Month,
violence survivors as well as formal dresses for the
sisters collected nearly 400 items from the art supplies
organization's "Dinner with Divas" event. Pictured left to
wish list for Our Little Haven.
right are Fairy Mills (Beta Sigma, University of Georgia),
the foundation's founder Alma G. Davis and Rita Evans
(Beta Sigma).
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10 GAMMA SIGMA GAMMA (ROCHESTER,
NEW YORK)
Each year, the alumnae chapter partners with Epsilon
Lambda (The University of Texas at Arlington) to make
After 13 months without a meeting, 16 alumnae
Build-A-Bears for children at SafeHaven. This year,
chapter sisters were reunited at the home of treasurer
though, the shelter specifically asked for shower caddies.
Fran McDowell (Gamma Sigma, University of Rhode
Delta Eta Delta set and exceeded a huge fundraising
Island). Most attendees were 60-year members, with one
goal to be able to provide caddies and bears, as well as
reaching 75 years of membership!
other donations. Additionally, the collegiate chapter
invited alumnae and their kids to the chapter house to
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make cards to go with the donations.
ALUMNA
Martha (Lancet) Fishback celebrated 75 years of
membership this year; her daughter presented her pin
and conducted the milestone ceremony. Martha shares,
"The 75-year pin is beautiful, and I will treasure it as I
proudly wear it."
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3 THETA UPSILON (UNIVERSITY OF SOUTH
CAROLINA) COLLEGIAN
1 GAMMA ZETA (KANSAS STATE UNIVERSITY)
Payton Ramsey won the UK Study/Research Fulbright
ALUMNA
Award to Cardiff University in Wales, where she will be
getting her master's of public health while researching
Dr. Jamie Ball received the 2021 Distinguished Young
Alumni Award from the K-State Alumni Association
early childhood interventions for refugees. She also
received the Steven N. Swanger Award, President's
Student Alumni Board. A pediatrician, Jamie was
Award and Outstanding Senior Award from UofSC.
recognized for excellence in her profession and
contributions to her community.
4 GAMMA RHO (TEXAS TECH UNIVERSITY)
ALUMNA
2 BETA ETA (FLORIDA STATE UNIVERSITY)
ALUMNA
Christine Self has co-authored a book on college
parenting, College Ready 2021, that comes out this June.
Britain Riley received the Mary B. Coburn Outstanding
It guides parents in how to support their children in the
Faculty/Staff Member Award from Florida State
transition to college. Christine adds that she's been able
University in recognition for her outstanding
to reconnect with many sisters when they've reached
contributions to the Greek Community.
out for advice as their children went off to college.
THE LYRE
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IN MEMORIAM
In Memoriam
Tau (Brenau University)
Mary Adams Rich, 1928, March 2013
Candy Brown Krusa, 1969, April 2021
Alpha Xi (University of Montana)
Reported to headquarters between
Upsilon (Millikin University)
Jacqueline Williams Olsen, 1946, January 2017
February 1 and April 30, 2021*
LaVerne Crackel Dollahite, 1944, April 2021
Name, Initiation Year, Month and Year of Death
Juanita Peifer Pensinger, 1946, December 2020
Alpha Omicron (The Ohio State University)
Marvellee Michel Ridgeway, 1941, October 2017
Ora Brailey Geer, 1929, March 2021
*Editor's Note: Headquarters staff is in the process
Melinda McEntee Shaw, 1962, March 2021
of updating our database for deceased members.
Phi (University of Kansas)
The list published here contains those members who
Betty Tudor Brown, 1953, February 2021
Alpha Pi (University of North Dakota)
passed away within the last 10 years; however, a full
Barbara Hall Marshall, 1943, April 2021
Karen Olson Schlegel, 1929, November 2011
list of all deceased members reported to or confirmed
Ruth Abercrombie Pickrell, 1950, November
by headquarters staff between February 1 and
2020
Alpha Rho (University of Idaho)
April 30, 2021 can be found on the "Lyre" page of
Saramae Williams Landers, 1926, February 2014
alphachiomega.org, under Stay Connected.
Chi (Oregon State University)
Margaret Alley Rise, 1951, April 2021
Lillian Groce Federighi, 1946, January 2021
Alpha (DePauw University)
Alpha Sigma (Ohio Wesleyan University)
Mary Catherine Hall, 1932, October 2011
Psi (The University of Oklahoma)
Bonnie Root Ehmann, 1959, April 2021
Jean Hixon Jelliffe, 1944, April 2020
Julian Brisco, 1959, June 2019
Charlotte Epple Smith, 1930, January 2013
Katherine Phillips Foster, 1928, December 2012
Alpha Tau (University of New Hampshire)
Peggy Gentry Galloway, 1973, February 2021
Kate Sherwood, 1994, February 2021
Beta (Albion College)
Lydia Kay Taylor, 1966, January 2021
Sandra Bentley Colyer, 1960, March 2021
Alpha Upsilon (The University of Alabama)
Nancy Wotring Walker, 1956, June 2019
Anita Mitchell Caldwell, 1925, April 2011
Gamma (Northwestern University)
Alpha Beta (Purdue University)
Robin Nettles Gemerchak, 1949, February 2021
Mary Elizabeth Bowman, 2003, April 2021
Mary Callahan Dohn, 1929, December 2014
Elizabeth Urbanowski Hibben, 1957, March 2021
Alpha Phi (The University of Texas at Austin)
Doris Hess Josivoff, 1951, February 2021
Averyl Overholser Keedy, 1930, May 2011
Nancy Couvillion Bloodwell, 1950, January 2021
Alpha Gamma (The University of New
Doris Holiman Goodson, 1944, February 2021
Delta (Allegheny College)
Mexico)
Martha Savage Stovall, 1946, January 2021
Mary Day Ware, 1939, February 2021
Dorcas Knudsen Doering, 1952, December 2020
Barbara Cozzens Postlewaite, 1950, April 2021
Alpha Psi (UCLA)
Epsilon (University of Southern California)
Leslie Ehrman De Palo, 1978, January 2021
Anne Lane Bozarth, 1946, December 2015
Alpha Delta (University of Cincinnati)
Virginia McWhinney Cramoline, 1946, May 2019
Lyda Brockman Robison, 1926, May 2011
Beta Gamma (Louisiana State University)
Grace Wallace Fretwell, 1926, April 2014
Kappa (University of Wisconsin)
Alpha Zeta (Washington University in St.
Catherine K. Sheehan, 1951, February 2021
Louis)
Beta Epsilon (Michigan State University)
Betty Vallier Thomas, 1941, December 2017
Mandy Bonnie Egol, 1963, February 2021
Margot Woodward Gray, 1951, December 2020
Sarah Kraus Higgins, 1954, November 2020
Doris Pick Hutting, 1946, July 2020
Mu (Simpson College)
Martha Hartwein Hughes, 1946, December 2013
Betty Jane Miller, 1946, September 2017
Marsha George Richeson, 1963, August 2020
Beta Zeta (Whitman College)
Mary Barton Wintermantel, 1946, April 2021
Sandra Jean Ritchie, 1954, February 2021
Alpha Eta (University of Mount Union)
Nu (University of Colorado Boulder)
Elizabeth Titus Isaacs, 1929, November 2014
Beta Eta (Florida State University)
Betty Bryce Horner, 1958, February 2021
Ruth Workman Law, 1928, June 2013
Sandra Seibert Payne, 1967, April 2021
Virginia Dergarry Wile, 1946, August 2019
Xi (University of Nebraska - Lincoln)
Alpha lota (University of Vermont)
Alice Lee Rhode Davis, 1928, November 2011
Janet Killary Bennett, 1946, February 2020
Beta Lambda (University of Arizona)
Beatrice Parkhill Whitney, 1929, November 2015
Lillian Falk Underwood, 1930, October 2013
Omicron (Baker University)
Andrea Donnell Alexander, 1952, February 2021
Alpha Kappa (University of Oregon)
Beta Mu (Pennsylvania State University)
Patricia Albright Scott, 1971, March 2021
Bernice Stark Cook, 1949, February 2021
Mary Braun Rice, 1953, February 2021
Lina M. Spencer, 1941, August 2020
Barbara Berntsen Prézelin, 1967, January 2021
Patricia Montgomery Wyne, 1948, April 2021
Beta Nu (University of Utah)
Sigrid Ericksen Strand, 1970, January 2021
Marilyn Reiser Crawford, 1946, April 2021
Pi (University of California, Berkeley)
Alpha Mu (Indiana University)
Doris Lagomarsino Bogardus, 1939, December 2019
Beta Pi (Washington College)
Nancy Jane Louck, 1954, February 2021
Lillian Ballard Grieb, 1946, December 2020
Susan Spencer Moore, 1951, February 2021
Mary Strain Rash, 1927, February 2011
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#RealStrongWomen
Our Real. Strong. Women. brand is who we are and what do. This has been
Beta Tau (Miami University)
a year like no other for Alpha Chi Omega. From recruiting new members to
Patricia Nelson Busard, 1946, July 2020
raising awareness for domestic violence, empowering leaders to celebrating
strong women, sisters have lived out our brand each and every day!
Beta Upsilon (Duke University)
Rita Shoaf Speas, 1946, March 2020
Beta Phi (Bowling Green State
@UNCG_AXO
@AUG_ALPHACHI
ZETA XI
LAMBDA XI
University)
Lynette Loeffler Reagan, 1963, January 2018
Beta Chi (Willamette University)
Joan Cloudy Banta, 1947, January 2021
Gay Glenn Camp, 1964, January 2021
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Beta Omega (The University of Toledo)
Donna Mickens Haupricht, 1954, February 2021
Gamma Delta (University of Denver)
Ruth Clifton Garrett, 1947, January 2021
HAPPY FOUNDERS' DAY
to our one and only Zeta
#augaxo #sisters #gogreek
Gamma Epsilon (Oklahoma State
Xi! We are blessed to have
#realstrongwomen
University)
experienced the beautiful bond
Julia Prue Ricketts, 1955, February 2021
of sisterhood within our chapter
Judith Stevenson Thompson, 1956,
#realstrongwomen
September 2020
@AXO_FIU
Gamma Theta (University of Maryland)
KAPPA UPSILON
Jane Suppes Gascoyne, 1948, February 2021
@AXO_AT_IUPUI
Gamma Kappa (Idaho State University)
KAPPA OMEGA
Anne Miwa Kawakami, 1961, February 2021
Gamma Mu (Ball State University)
Janice Rector Crum, 1950, December 2018
Gamma Nu (San Diego State University)
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Shirley Offord Johnson, 1951, January 2021
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Sandra Steele Spivey, 1972, March 2021
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Gamma Xi (Western Michigan
president and VP membership
University)
programming for attending
the Greek leadership retreat.
Mary Allen Cromie, 1953, February 2021
Continue to let your light shine
We hold our philanthropy very
in AXO #realstrongwomen
Gamma Omicron (Marshall University)
close to our hearts & our number
Colleen Maura O'Neill, 1991, March 2021
one goal is to spread awareness
throughout the nation
#axodvam
Gamma Rho (Texas Tech University)
Tiffany Ann Smith, 1998, December 2020
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Gamma Tau (Oklahoma City University)
ALPHA OMEGA
Nikki Luper Craig, 1962, January 2021
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Delta Zeta (Central Michigan University)
ALPHA UPSILON
Julie Ruonavaara Donovan, 1959, December
2020
Delta lota (Emory University)
Charlotte Etheridge Holland, 1959, March
2021
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Epsilon Mu (Northern Illinois
University)
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Karen Totzke Ranos, 1970, April 2017
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